2007-03-19 06:44:18 · 20 answers · asked by rebelrider5041127 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its clearly inappropriate for your husband to be womanizing as is sounds like he is. You need to set him straight like only a woman knows how.
2007-03-19 06:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now I have limits with this opposite sex freind stuff. I have friends of the opposite sex that I have been just friends with for years & I'm attractive some of my friends are married & some are not. I didn't just pop up out the blue & start talking to a married man thats not right & my friends that are married I've met there wives before they were married. Also friends should understand & have boundaries especially if their friends are married which I do. I don't pop up unexpected, nor do I call late at night, nor do I invite him to single functions as if he isn't married, so I respect his vow!
2007-03-19 13:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by WOW! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is married and both should go out together because a marrige does not wk that way , and it also depends how much trust u have but men are men and alcohol and grls do not mix that would be temptetion and cheating can be involved.
2007-03-19 13:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by devenylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine has female friends, and he drinks more than I would like. Does yours exclude you from their get togthers and conversatons? If he keeps you separate from them, I'd lay down the law. But if he incldues you, that is great. I would offer to invite them to your home for a dinner or drinks, so you can all get to each other. And invite any single men you know ;-)
2007-03-19 14:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by KathrynCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband did that, I'd be on the phone with my lawyer in a heartbeat. Don't put up with that kind of behavior. Thank you and GOD bless.
2007-03-19 13:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband drinks and hangs out with his friends but i know who he is with and where he is...he tells me voluntarily as a courtesy to let me know that i have nothing to worry about. i also am his dd should he ever need someone to get him. he knows better than to go flirting with other women, even if hes drunk. he tells me about the girls that he talks to on his phone. i know them all. i have access to everything that is his because he lets me. trust is key. if you dont have trust, you have nothing. explain the problem with him first and try to tell him why you are uncomfortable. if he doesnt understand or refuses to ease your mind about the trust issues, then id say "see ya"...it aint worth the stress.
2007-03-19 13:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Love my Family <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not allow it. If he keeps doing this than we are over. I can't even allow my man to drink with his buddy unless I am around. Drunk people do stupid things and if my man or any man was around women when both are drunk....goodness..something is bound to happen.
2007-03-19 14:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women friends ok, if it is business related, I believe I'd whoop up on him, if it's not business related or you could try doing the same thing, and see how he likes it.
2007-03-19 13:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by All Natural Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should rethink your "marriage". If you guys were really happy, would he be doing that all the time??
Definitely do not put up with it. If you put up with it now, he will never stop. Good luck.
2007-03-19 13:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by Sam F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sign him up for AA join AA enablers contact a divorce lawyer seek counselling pack up move out quit being the doormat under his muddy shoes
2007-03-19 13:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋