My family have forgiven me but does God forgive me?Do I evven deserve forgiveness?Or should I commit myself to a hospital?I eam it was years ago when all this happened to me and Im hasve gotten over it and I am in University but what kindd of a life do I deserve?I know wjhat I ddi to my mum was wrong I feel ashamed every day maybe I did'nt deserve her frogiveness!How can I ever have any deep and meaningful realtionships?
2007-03-19 06:41:32 · 9 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You're sorry for what you did, and your mum's forgiven you. It seems you're unable to forgive yourself though. We've all done bad things to the people we love, and as long as you're truly sorry for what you've done, and intend never to do it again, there is no reason why you shouldn't be forgiven.
2007-03-19 07:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by hannahmarie2806 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says you just have to ask for forgiveness. But I'm not expert on that subject. It is so hard to forgive yourself, but time helps that a lot. What should help you keep focused on staying alive is that those people that you are obsessed with guilt at having hurt, will grieve for you forever if you commit suicide. Most of the time, depression and such can, and is, treated outpatient, so please go see a psychiatrist. Note I said psychiatrist because they are the place to start. Then go find a good counselor that you feel is working well for you.
You deserve a wonderful life. Now go find the help you need to get that! The relationships will follow.
2007-03-19 06:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From the tone of this, I'd advise you to get counselling.
You dont need a hospital, I dont think,
You just need to forgive yourself.
Let up on yourself. You were probably at a growing stage.
Everyone on earth make mistakes, and they'd proably not do them again.
God forgives, just ask him.
If you think you have a violent streak, you need to get some help to address that.
MY guess is that you were angry and frustrated with something in your life, and you took it out on the person closest to you.
Talk to someone you trustt..
Good luck
2007-03-26 23:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by sylvia a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already truely asked for forgiveness and God has given it to you. God doesnt want you to live a life in shame. I have the same trouble with dealing with certain actions i have done as well, im glad you thought about your mistakes and im glad you saw rock bottom, now you know the consequences and importance of your actions. you are on your way.
2007-03-19 06:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if your mother has forgiven you then you need to forgive yourself. Just don't put your hands on anyone else. Seek some counseling to address this issue.
2007-03-24 06:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your family have forgiven you....................you must learn from mistakes and forgive yourself! Then move on and get on with your life and make meaningful relationships.
2007-03-25 11:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by bevalou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your mum has for givern you you should forgiveyour self there is no point in carring all this guilt if you have been forgivern, you are ok dont think you are a bad person people have done worse,
2007-03-26 04:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop beating yourself up about it for a start, you have been forgiven so whats the prob, enjoy life...
2007-03-24 01:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by juejua 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all the bible says is HONOR thy Father and Thy Mother... shame onyou
2007-03-19 06:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Pastor Biker 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋