Why don't overweight men desire overweight women and vice versa?

Question

I like the Carpenter's dream....flat as a board and easy to nail!!

Answer 1

universal paradox

Answer 2

Well, fat people together have a harder time in bed, I would think..haha

For real though, I'm a bigger woman and I am attracted to both average and big size boys. However, men on the other hand are not always attracted to big women because no matter what size a man is, his view of a women, due to media and such, is that the ideal woman is thin.

Another idea is that men, typically, when overweight do not look bad at all...in fact, most of the time they look better with the weight on. Men have no figure, so when you are overweight, it is typically in your gutt (or what we call the beer gut). However, when women are overweight, it really takes away from the "hour glass" figure. If women are overweight, you notice it in the belly, the thighs, the butt and the hips.

There are a small minority of men that ARE attracted to overweight women because that's what they prefer (a little cushion for the pushin') and there are a small minority of women that are completely turned off by overweight men.

Hope that makes sense!

Answer 3

Funny: But Here's the real scoop:
We are all naturally attracted to the exact opposite of us.

That doesn't neccessarilly mean Skinny auto-attracted to Fat etc...
What I am saying is as a means of survival we are naturally attracted to someone whom we feel will be as genetically different to us as possible the reason being that if we are genetically immune to this that and the other and the other person we mate with has a different set of immunities our offspring have a stronger immune system and a better chance for survival. So we are natuarally attracted to them. This can be distinguished by women throug scent. Problem is these days we have so many extra scents associated with us (Detergent, deoderant, Perfume, cologne etc...) that is is harder for us to use these scent glands to sniff out our mates, but really it's still there even if it's hidden deep down in our subconscius.

Now as far as your specific question why are fat people attracted to skinny, If you Can't also say why are skinny people attracted to fat people then you have no real question because that just means most people are attracted to skinny. LOL but if we can say that both opposites are true then there you have it. LOL

For survival it would make sense to try and make an average Strong Build by merging a skinny with a fat! LOL :)

Answer 4

in my opinion i do no longer care approximately money, love and character suited that yet as you suggested "a guy has organic desires for pleasing women people - sorry women folk it rather is impossible for us adult males to combat the urges while an pleasing youthful blonde comes alongside" nicely woman have organic desires for adult males who're muscular and somewhat older and sturdy finding. What might clarify the money factor although is that for the duration of animal kingdoms the female desire to be severe in the %. its organic, so all of them attempt to get the chief, there the chief for a reason. we are all merely animals so the money might desire to be an developed version of that. i will admit although its no longer a sturdy excuse and character ought to suited each and every thing. yet its merely the way it rather is fellows and besides the fact that if distinctive females might nicely be like that there is a few who rather do no longer think of that way.

Answer 5

Well you do sound smart but bitter. Yes I know what its like to be unattractive.So yes people really are that superficial or at least most people are and if you are going to rant about how superficial people are you are not going to get anywhere. Its your attitude that might need a small adjustment! Im not saying you have a bad personality but harping about women not paying attention to you because of your looks doesnt help.
One small suggestion is make your profile picture more attractive..im not saying yourself but your picture because anyone who only has a picture of their face (myself included) doesnt look that appealing unless they look like a model. I know you might be to embarressed to put your whole body on your picture (or if not sorry to ofend) but it may help.

And if you are tired of being big then seriously deal with the issue and lose the weight. Im not saying you should for others but you seem like you want to yourself.

it takes work! Exercize, and changing ypur eating habits but it is worth it to feel good about yourself! and you should try it. good luck and take care!!!

Answer 6

Cuz I got enough for two people!

But YOU got enough fat for everyone that answered this question to have heart disease! Dam man, ever found a food u didnt like?


And seriously two skinny people can hurt each other. My bff said her hips are like daggers and same with husband they both get bruises from each others bony bodies.

Answer 7

Because if they are both very overweight like your picture then they would not be able to get it in. At least a thin woman can sit on it for him. LOL

Answer 8

I would say its all in the person. I have seen really skinny men with large woman. They must see something in one another.

Answer 9

There isn't enough food on this planet to support couples who are overweight.
Unless we go to a Soylant Green based agri-economy.

Answer 10

my ex-bf (who's not over weight) fell in love and married my close friend (who's extremely over weight)... at one point while he and i were dating (less than a month) he said i was too skinny lol... I've never been told that before! but i guess he prefers big girls... so it's not ALL men.

Answer 11

society says its okay for a man to be over weight but not a woman