i am not doing well in my final exams of IX and my parents hav high expectations from me! what should i do?

Question

everyone says i have the potential 2 do that. but due to some tentions i am not able to perform well! plz help me

Answer 1

Do your level best. Your parents will appreciate this. If you keep plugging, your sincerity, hard work, and perseverance will pay in your future studies and in life.

Answer 2

yes... ur parents are right. u might have the potential to excel in some subjects but u might not have the interest...

if u r not doing well in some subjects... it can only mean that u don't have the interest in it.

so be bold and let ur parents know where ur true interests lie.

this is ur life and u can excel only if u choose a career of ur choice.

it might not be the popular science/ maths or hotel mgmnt stream... but that hardly matters...

remember v.anand.... he loved chess and made it a career... now he's the world chess grandmaster.

all the best...

once u speak this out to ur family... ur fear/tension of pursuing an uninterested career will fade away and u'll eventually start scoring.

Answer 3

My dear.....don't worry u can do it. lets take my example.....I was very poor in my studies till IX std...but in X std i stood 2nd in my school. Then i taken admission in science stram for 11 and 12th std. And then i have done my engineering and now i am doing job in MNC with very good package. In my class everyone used to hate me...but i have changed my self a lot and now......everyone talks about me......so remember .....forget what u did earlier......start new thing new practices today....still u have lot of time....as u have asked this question means....u want to change...so dear be calm and change ur self........try hard.....then see the difference...i am sure u will get success.

Best of luck my dear

Answer 4

Have you tried talking to your parents and telling them about what is going on with you? Tell them you need help and right now their setting the bar so high is stressing you out. I believe that your looking at their expectations and trying to acheive their expectations is where a lot of your stress is coming from. Look into yourself and do what you can do - your best not theirs and it will work out but communication with you and them is the key.

Answer 5

hi dear don't feel bad just try to concentrate on ur studies n think y u r doing gud in ur exams wt's the reason n if there is prob share wth ur near ones or if u want u can talk wth ur parents , try to make them understand ur pro i hope they 'lll unnderstand ur prob n 'll help u so don't b tensed n work hard bye tke care n best of luck

Answer 6

The only expectations you should worry about are your own. If you are trying your best then make them understand that, this is what you can do. But if there are things distracting you then clear your mind and try again

Answer 7

Well dont jus worry it happens when u r too confident abt urself or in other words over confident so jus stop thinking like this and it will surely help u

Answer 8

even i was hvin the same problem....... but i guess u shud talk 2 ur parents tht they shud not hv high expectations frm u, coz u r gettin tensed n this will reflect in ur studies n assure them tht u r gonna do u ur best

Answer 9

Hey,nothing is impossible.
you can do it.Just believe in yourself and forget all tension for few days aside and do your best.
Every parents wants like that.

My wishes are with you.

Answer 10

hey don't worry. just don't care about anyone else's opinion. do what you want to do. don't think of your parent's expectations. if you will receive good marks, it will benefit you, not them. just ask yourself whether you want to score high or not. if yes then do it for your future