...love another man? Or why do women marry one man when they are still loving another - is this fair to the new man?
2007-03-19 06:25:55 · 15 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if the fiance or husband knew about her feelings for another man, why would he marry her in the first place. obviously, he made the choice to marry this grl, and wanted to make her his wife. And for the grl to marry another man while having feelings for another is wrong. she should have tried to let him go before stepping into another relationship. she is selfish for trying to use another man to get over her feelings of another. if the guy really loves this grl and wants things to work. I think the best thing to do is talk to her, and let it be known that you will fight for her~ good luck :)
2007-03-19 06:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by kc321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married the man I love, I have only loved him. That isnt fair to the man she married or the new man.
2007-03-19 13:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not fair if she loves someone else from her past and marrys another is just plain hurtful. The past is what it is the past leave it there. And if you are married enjoy it love the one who married you not the one who did not
2007-03-19 14:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it isnt fair! You shouldnt marry someone when you have any type of deep feelings for someone else. That is just begging for marital problems and an early divorce. THINK BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED. 50% of marriages end in divorce, probably because people do stupid things like that.
2007-03-19 13:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Namename 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not fair..........but i don't think most women marry a man when they love another man
2007-03-19 13:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that makes no sense, I married the man I love and that is the only man
2007-03-19 13:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by bb77blueeyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair to anyone involved, but I guess you would call that settling. You can always carry a torch for your first love, that doesnt mean that you will love your current partner any less, just differently.
2007-03-19 13:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just wrong all around, not fair, some people are in a confused state when they are breaking up, rebound relationships, that is all I can think of.
2007-03-19 13:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebound
2007-03-19 13:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Robert and Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not fair! I have time enough for just one at a time!! Why need more?
2007-03-19 13:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋