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Okay, my husband and I have been together for 5 and 1/2 years and married for 2 of those years. I am 25 and he is 38.. (Big diff I know, but hes wonderful and broke lol:)
Anyway my point is we both want children and he has always promised me that by the time I turned 25 that we would have our first baby together. So I am 25 and no baby yet, been off the pill for a year, seperate reason. He does not ejaculate in me nor will either. We have talked many seperate occasions about this topic and he wants to have kids but always says its the responsibility and not now. But obviously he is a little scared and getting older. We are financially ready and I am very prepared.

My question: I have been tempted to just accidently get pregnant if you know what I mean (use your imagination)
What is your opinion? I feel like he will never feel ready and that we just need to do it. But I can't make him agree. He always puts it off and says I don't want to talk about it.

2007-03-19 06:23:53 · 1 answers · asked by Leely 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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this may be time to seek counseling. my DH is 10 years my senior and jumped to the fact of having kids. If this is something you both talked about and agree upon before getting married then it is an expectation that you have been waiting on for years. it was promised to you and that is why most of use get married.

accidental.... u wouldn't do it just yet... if he still does not want to talk about it professional help may be needed. things like this can really hurt and harm a marriage.

best of luck

2007-03-19 09:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kynnie 6 · 0 0

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