I am about to go back to court over my children. My ex-husband's common law wife hurt my son over the holiday's. Now he has had alot of emotional problems due to this. I want to protect my children from this woman. she is bi-polar and not on her meds. due to being pregnant. Earlier last year she assulted me in front of my children and the judge throw the case out.
2007-03-19 06:20:04 · 10 answers · asked by helen f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My question is: What can i do to help my son through this? He has had nightmare. he runs from the phone when his daddy calls to talk to him. He also begs me not to take him to see his father. People can call me bitter all they want. That tell me they have never lived in my shoes.
2007-03-19 06:43:37 · update #1
To in2one: My son is 7yrs old. He has been through enough. I have come here asking for help not to be told the personal opinion of a person that acts as if they themselves have no children. I do not hold any ill feeling for my ex, but I will not sit be and play nice to him when my children are hurts. I did not invite you to live in my shoes. Unless you have lived it for yourself. You have very little room if any to be condeming me for asking for help from other people who have been where I am at.
2007-03-19 09:26:53 · update #2
Don't pay any attention to the ones that judge. I feel for you, I too had similar problems years ago and had to put my foot down, I did.
You're kids come before all. You could call LEGAL AID (it's free).
This would be a good start.
2007-03-26 10:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question stems from what damaging words that the common law wife said to your son that left him emotionally upset. I believe the "wife" is jealous and angry because your ex. has to spent time with his children. Get a lawyer preferrable a family lawyer - so see if you can get some peace out of this situation - and most of all PRAY for wisdom.
2007-03-27 06:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek legal advice and write everything down times dates calls etc record calls if you can, donot force your son to speak to them as it will be more upsetting for him. no one has the right to hurt your son. The legal channels are the best way to go to protect your self and your son. Good Luck to you both and I hope you get this resolved soon. Don't listen or even give brain space to narrow minded individuals who have nothing better to do that talk rubbish (you know who you are!!!)
2007-03-27 01:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously being one-sided in this story. for starters, if the judge threw out the assault case, you were probably just bitter and causing problems. How did she hurt your son? spanking? please.....you sound like a scorned woman causing problems and bringing your children into it. You are going to screw your son up mentally if you, your ex-husband and this woman do not work together. your son will play you against them for the rest of his life. how old is the son anyway? I only know what you tell us and I think you convieniently tailored the story to make it seem like your son is a victim when in reality you believe it is you. You invited me into your shoes!
2007-03-19 06:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by in2one 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It sad to hear you are getting those kinds of response. I say if your boy is seriously doing and going through this then fight and fight hard. Don't let people call you bitter screw them. You are a mother and right now that is your only responsibility. Do what needs to be done. Best wishes.
2007-03-24 11:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by rosser_girl_68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first you need to go to the court house and place a restraining order onthis women to keep her away from your son. He will have to tell people what she done to him... take action against this women fast that way the courts and police CPS all of them know you mean buisness....
Just because she is his wife and step mother means nothing rack her *** for hurting your child.... you can also have it worked out that the father can not have your children around this women when he has them due to danger..............
Run fast and keep your babies safe an loved........REPORT this now and have it on record.............
2007-03-19 07:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not let my child go over there....I think that he would have to take you to court to make you....then he would have to pay the court cost...I would tell him..."your wife wanna be" is not going to hurt my kids...and they will not be around her and let him come to visit the kids at your house or maybe your parents somewhere you will know that your kids are going to be safe... and if he can't understand that ... let him do what he feels like he needs to do..
2007-03-27 02:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? Get a really good lawyer.
2007-03-19 06:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And your question is . . . . .
2007-03-19 06:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT IS YOUR QUESTION?
2007-03-19 06:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋