what should i do please help?

Question

I have a very serious problem i was a virgin until a week ago my period came on February 15 and now it is March 19 and i lost my virginity on March 12 is i'm pregnant i am scared because i am just 16 and my parents would kill me and i also have a boyfriend but me and him haven't had sex yet. how could i get rid of the baby with out and abortion because we don't have any money. Please help me

Answer 1

You question makes no sense. You need to reword it. Are you a virgin or not? How are you not a virgin if you and your boyfriend haven't had sex?

Answer 2

Have u taken a pregnancy test? Because actually, your dates are not falling into place for fertility time and sex time.
In other words, unless u have confirmation from a test, I would guess ur not pregnant at all and just running a bit late on your cycle. February was a short month so dont panic. U may be delayed due to stress from worrying about possibly being pregnant too.
If u havent take a test, then go to the health department and let them give u one. Until then, dont panic because the dates are all wrong. If your period was on the fifteenth, your most fertile time would have been around March 1 thru 5.
I wish u luck hun. And if ur not pregnant, then stop fooling around irresponsibly. U dont want to have a baby young and if you are going to have sex like an adult, then act responsibly and ensure u dont get pregnant.
Good luck to u hun.

Answer 3

I personally don't recommend an abortion. There is a thing called the morning after pill. But i think you missed that boat. I would check into a planned parenthood around your house. It is confidential and no one would find out. I highly doubt you are pregnant. Seeing how you had your last period on feb 14, that means you ovulated on february 28 and that would be around the time that you would have had to get pregnant. So, it could also just be stress or that your period is just disrupted because you had sex for the first time. I would definetly take a home test to find out. If you dont' have the money to do that any clinic does pregnancy tests for free or planned parenthood does them for free. Best of luck . I hope it works out for you.

Answer 4

head to planned parenthood. They can give you a pregnancy test and if you AREN'T pregnant, they can start you on birth control.

You should not be having unprotected sex! You could catch an STD.

As far as "getting rid" of the baby without an abortion...you can't. The only options you have now are:
1- have the baby
2- give the baby up for adoption
3- have an abortion

There is the "morning after pill" but you have waited too long for it to work. PLEASE do not have unprotected sex unless you are willing to become a parent!

Answer 5

It would be best to talk to your parents, but if not then at least talk to a school counselor or a trusted adult. They would be able to help you. Please talk to SOMEONE and don't rush into doing something that you'll regret later. I wish you the best of luck and take care of yourself.

Answer 6

So you slept with a boy that wasen't your boyfriend for your first time? Not only that, but you did not protect yourself?
You are the reason abortions should be illegal.

Answer 7

Well you know that you wold have to own up to your mistake and or go to the nearest planned parenthood and tell them what had happened. they will under stand

Answer 8

well did you just now hook up wit your boyfriend cuz if you didn't have sex wit him then well.............. anyways im not gonna get in to that cuz its not my bussness I'm sixteen too but i would have to tell somebody wuts goin on cuz sooner or later somone is gonna find out either its your parents or your bf you know wut im saying and my mom dont know that i lost mine just recently. but you know you got to protect your self you know cuz you dont know wut is out there and who gots wut.

Answer 9

did you have a test to be sure you are pregnant????