Lover #2 has asked #1 why she hasn't wanted to have sex with her numerous times and #1 would say nothing is wrong. It's been two months. Finally, 2 months later #1 confessions and says its because lover #2 has gain a couple of pounds. #2 says that's b.s. cause #1 has gain weight too. She continues by saying it's not a lot its only about 15 - 20 pounds and you've been with ppl my size and bigger than me so what's the problem. #1s says she loves #2 and wants to be with her alwys, but she just haven't wanted sex for the weight gain reason.#2 knows she needs to lose the weight, but feels since #1 took it upon herself to stop sex because of some like that and was not honest about it in the first place should she stay after she loses the weight even though she loves #1 and their relationship is great other than this, or should she work through her anger/hurt feelings and stay even when she does lose the weight. What are your thoughts/suggestions?
2007-03-19 05:51:56 · 6 answers · asked by Dimples J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
thats sad if shes not into her anymore then the realationship is pretty much donezo i mean the mind trys to come up with excuses to not be with someone and i think she should except it and move on no one deserves to be pushed aside with such a lame excuse lose weight and find someone hotter try hooking up with a guy thatll piss her off
2007-03-19 06:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound a twin of this kind of guy that needs to be in a loving, nurturing marriage. He sounds like he's were given some wacky ideas about the thanks to administration his spouse (previous historic past) and communicate with females individuals. and obviously it bothers you. i imagine that being waiting to get genuine honest is the most to a real courting. If he's already putting forward you've damaged up then i don't believe of he replaced into fairly "all-in", if he replaced into, he ought to have talked to you later, once you've been sober, and also you 2 ought to have worked it out. Us women individuals have instinct. and that i imagine your instinct is telling you that this isn't a strong tournament. you want someone who is going to love and cherish you and says issues that construct you up. the way he treats others is unquestionably an illustration of ways he will manage you. i imagine you should take a wreck - a pair weeks gained't damage once you're talking about an entire life, proper? strong success!
2016-11-26 22:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy cow. I don't care how in love I am with someone. If they tell me that they don't want to be with me anymore because I've put on a few pounds or hell, even if I've lost an arm, then I know that they don't really love me. Time to move on and quit wasting my time with someone so shallow. It is supposed to be about love, not about purely physical attraction. I mean, yes, originally it is physical attraction, but once you are in a relationship, if you love someone, it doesn't matter anymore. That sounds like such a guy thing to do, I'm shocked. Tell your friend to find someone new, and don't let it get her down!!!
2007-03-19 05:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by jjspike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lover#1 still love #2 but she is not in love with her.
There is a difference to love someone, and to be in love
with someone.
2007-03-19 06:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by Grandma"s AngelMaxine W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...someone needs to get a life and a clue. If someone doesn't want to have sex with you move on and find someone else cuz they are getting it somewhere else.
2007-03-19 05:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Big dummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop eating so much......excercise more....then she will be more willing to do some carpet munchin again....
2007-03-19 05:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by muffbro 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋