my friend keeps hitting me
2007-03-19 05:43:30 · 8 answers · asked by cutie pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
leave her alone, and start a new group with new friends..
2007-03-19 05:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hitting you like beating you up? Is this really your friend then?I shouldnt be saying this, but give this person what they deserve (hopefully not a full on fight)...but maybe you wont be seen as a pushover.
Other than that to be cool..... make sure you look good like clothes and hair. Cant be shy.... Humor is great. Just look at what the other cool people are doing and try to be like them. I know that goes against all that "be who you are" nonsense, but if you listen to that you might not ever change. You will find ways to be yourself and popular at the same time (usually later on in school though).
another thing.... dont try too hard to be friends with people because you might look desperate, and dont try to buy friendships either (like "can I buy you lunch?" or "lets go to the movies, ill pay").
My last word of advise is, usually AFTER high school you will see that the whole "cool" thing is over-rated.... if not non existant all together. But until then, you probably would much rather be cool.
2007-03-19 13:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by girlvette2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are finished with school, you will most likely look back in retrospect and ask yourself "Why the hell did I waste so much time trying to be cool or accepted by everyone else? Why did I take everything so seriously?" Honestly, none of the kids you go to school with really matter. They are just as concerned about looking cool as you are, when coolness is all relative. A lot of people who think they are cool are really ***holes, only they don't know it. Remember: treat everyone as you would like to be treated, confidence is everything and when school is done, you are not going to give a **** about these people, so try not to spend too much time focusing on the whole popularity aspect of it. And don't let anyone hit you! That is unacceptable behavior from a friend and you should avoid that person from now on because they are not worthy of your time.
2007-03-19 16:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by pingponggirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just get another group of friends. If you can't do that at school, join a sport, or a club with people you may not know. Then you can get a fresh start. I bet they will like you for who you are.
For your "friend" that hits you, talk to them and tell them that what they are doing is wrong and what you want is another person who you thought they were.
And to get popular you just be yourself. The "popular" kids are the ones that don't listen and are selfish, mean, and rude. If you want to be popular do it the right way or else you might be in trouble
2007-03-19 13:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaawwwwww.look just be yo self...but never let nobody hit you...you got to stick up for your self....and make sure when you wake up in the morning that every thing is right..that means hair done clothes iron teeth brushed shoes clean and you not ashy and you smelling good...and if you need anymore help just hit me up @ chentale11@yahoo.com or myspace.com
2007-03-19 12:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by chentale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just make urself felt in the class, u make them all laugh, u take over the playground, u start to run the show, and they are not ur friend, friends dont hit.
2007-03-19 12:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jesse N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to become cool, it just causes trouble. Tell your friend you don't like it and if she continues, find another friend.
2007-03-19 12:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and u allow him hitting u????????!!!!!!! 2become coool at schoool??? Boy be urself is all that u can do- Audioslave lyrics,,,,and they re true, ur cool 4urself its not important 2become popular....
2007-03-19 12:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋