I came home after a heavy night fo drinking on St Patty's day, and emailed someone who was organizing a reunion and got really nasty over the e-mail for him not including my e-mail address in the list (when he already had, hence getting the e-mail) and accused him of not wanting to invite me, holding a grudge against me and making up crap about me really winning a high school election but him getting it. It was SO embarassing. The next day, he sent me an e-mail saying he hoped I was joking. I e-mailed him back explaining that I was really sorry and was trashed when I wrote the e-mail. But i still feel very embarrassed and stupid, and want to make it up to him in some ways. He was a good acquaintance in high school. Any advice on how to make myself feel better and how to make him feel better about me?
2007-03-19 05:43:11 · 10 answers · asked by NM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thats classic! the matter of fact of this situation is that there is nothing you can do to erase what happened. you might regret it but the only thing you can do is realize that yourself, and move on. When you see him, just sincerely apologize for offending him with your rude remarks, and let it go. He prolly forgot about it, but because YOU can not let it go, its still embarassing. good luck :) and stay away from the computer when your drunk
2007-03-19 05:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by kc321 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Join the club of doing stupid things while drunk on St. Patty's (my boyfriend's not talking to me right now cuz I ran my fingers through some guy's hair right in front of my bf...yeah stupid). Well you should just said you were joking in the first place. Maybe give him a call and just reiterate that you didn't mean anything by it and you were sorta just foolin around but in any case, it was a stupid thing to do and the email doesn't reflect how you feel and that you are once again sorry. That is it. Don't say too much. If he's a cool guy he won't make more out of it. In a day or two you too will forget about it (I hope that's what happens with me and my boyfriend. We live together so I know I'll be getting the silent treatment for the next couple of days for sure).
2007-03-19 06:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by Main 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe send him something in the mail, like an actual letter you wrote, instead of an email. hand written letters are more maningful then emails.and say that u were sorry again and tell him u r embarassed and that he was a good acquaintance is highschool. basically what u wrote here. =]
2007-03-19 06:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might start by saying how sorry you are for being so stupid. Then offer to help in anyway you can with this reunion.
2007-03-19 06:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing that i'll tell u
don't ever be a fool by always begging for his forgiveness..
we all may do wrong.. n u know
saying sorry is thing that u need to do.. that's it..
after that, u're in the right position..
if he doesn't forgive u, it's absolutely not ur fault..
2007-03-19 06:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have. Everybody does stupid things when their trashed. This too shall pass!
2007-03-19 05:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by MISTY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep apologizing if you want to, but take time, don't be so hard on yourelf!
2007-03-19 05:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you were indeed joking...just checking to see what his reaction would be.
2007-03-19 05:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you guys go get drunk together! hehe
2007-03-19 05:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Chicken Noodle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a bj and you guys are even. j/k.
2007-03-19 05:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋