Friend help! so 3 of us friends had some issues with each other , one of them went and tole the other friend?
that i had said somethings, and now the other friend got all upset at me- so we talked it out and we agreed to get over the issue - so when i saw both of my friends this weekeend , i felt really awkward seeing them both, espeicially the one that snitched on me, so i just made small talk and now im feeling totally not even excited anymore to see them, how cani get over this feeling ? of feeling betrayed and hurt and to top it off, i live 6 hours away from both of them , only get to see them every 2 months , but we email all the time -
im feeling really down and i wished things had been left alone , everything was fine then-
thanks in advance
2007-03-19 05:39:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
will dats yo fault you was talk'n ****...but they will get ova it
2007-03-19 05:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by chentale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only way to change this is to time travel back in time and make it not happen. Since this doesn't seem to be reasonable, I believe you've a right to feel betrayed and hurt by one of your friends. If you are good friends you can tell that person your feelings. YOU control how you feel- not them. If that will make you feel better, do it. You obviously don't like feeling how you feel right now ... and know that your friendship with that person will never be the same again and you're grieving for it as well. They've lost your trust.
2007-03-19 05:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by Grace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the friend that went and told the other friend that you said something about them is not a real friend then. I think that the person is not a true friend and you need to ban the one that said that. That friend is really 2-faced and if that was me i wouldve been stopped talking to that person. Well at the same time, next time you say something about the other friend, amke sure you not around the person that snitched. Bye
2007-03-19 05:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by J@N1C3E. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you guys say that u are friends friends can get over things. friends make mistakes and suppose to stick it out. u have the time and distance to let the issue sail away before u see them again. i guess just remember the good things about them and u did agree to get over it so all u can do is work on it.
2007-03-19 05:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Rygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily authentic! (and at times, some extremely good Italian pasta and tomato sauce would not harm the two!) A reasuring presence, ... a mild while circumstances are dark, A hand reaching out, ... Is what friendship is all approximately! (author Unknown) "Arivederche Y'all!" ... :)
2016-12-15 03:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋