I have seen some postings on here regaurding women bothered by their husbands looking at other girls. I am married and I have been through this it bothered me bad I felt the same way you do not good enough,like he wanted someone who looked like what he saw etc. It was a big problem for me he didnt understand why it bothered me he said all men did it but I didnt think it was to the extent that you are looking all the time and your wife is feeling bad about herself that she cries alot and is hurt and feeling like your not attractive anymore. It got so bad for us that I was ready to walk out on our marriage so he could look all he wanted and I wouldnt feel this way. At the same time he wasnt making me feel good about myself he didnt tell me want I needed to hear like you look good or anything that made me feel like I am the one he wants. But now things are better ladies let me tell you I feel like I won the lottery. My husband had a wake up call and realized that he was about to lose me.
2007-03-19 05:37:53 · 10 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He tells me I am hot and look good and he wants me all the time. That is what I wanted to hear from him a long time ago. He cant keep his hands off me and it feels great. So now when he looks at other women it doesnt really bother me anymore I know he looks now I understand there are always going to be beautiful women around and he is always going to look but he has toned it down. The message i am trying to send here is if you have a good marriage and your husband makes you feel good about who you are and how you make him feel and doesnt only tell you but lets you know those other women dont have anything on you. Its amazing how things turned around for us I feel like I did when we met 9 years ago and I hope it stays this way. I am young and feel great he makes me feel like the hottest woman in the world and its waht all us women need from our husbands but we also need to show it in return. So how am I doing does this sound good or what?
2007-03-19 05:44:06 · update #1
He looked knowing it bothered me but it wasnt just the looking it was how he made me feel while he was looking he can look all he wants as long as he makes me feel this way about myself and about us. To the one who asked whats the ? no ? just wanted to post a topic that is so talked about on here and just wanted to share how my marriage is so much better we talked,I look as if we were newly weds and feel great and my advice was to get other women to speak to their husbands and give them what they want you.
2007-03-19 06:23:56 · update #2
Of course someone can make you feel something. That's a power you give them when you let them into your heart.
I 100% agree with your point - when a guy makes sure his wife feels that she's the one he wants most in the world, it's just not a big deal when he looks at other women.
2007-03-19 05:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by romipenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you care who he slept with before he was married? You don't know who he really is? Are you serious? You're making way too big a deal out of this. Besides, your husband has a point. There isn't much difference between picking up an easy girl at the bar and going to a prostitute. Either way a guy is going to have to drop some cash, whether it's to buy the easy girl drinks all evening or to pay the prostitutes fee. The latter is just taking the more direct route to the same destinantion.
2016-03-29 06:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times, that's what we men need-- a wake-up call. But a man doesn't always understand the way a woman thinks, llikewise, women don't always understand the man's thinking. It's abslolutely necessary that we talk to each other before it gets to the point where either one is considering divorce.
Why does a woman let her feelings get so hurt for so long before she says something? She doesn't want to hurt his feelings....blah, blah blah.
Why does a man do things that hurts his woman for so long? Like looking at another woman and ignoring the one he has.
If we don't talk to each other right away, then hurt is bound to happen.
I'm so glad you and your hubby have reached a point of mutual respect through communication.
2007-03-19 05:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can make you FEEL anything.
It is how you react to it.
Men will always look at good looking women.
Some are just sneakier than others.
Can you tell me you have not scoped out a guy?
2007-03-19 05:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to feel the same exact way. and sometimes i still do.but i'm getting used to it. i don't have the courage to leave.so i'll just let it be. whatever happens, maybe it'll be for the best. i love him dearly though.
2007-03-19 06:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by inquistive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where's the question in here? So, he started giving you attention, and stopped gawking.
That's good!
2007-03-19 05:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know my bf looks at women, but he always tells me how much he loves me and he makes me feel lovely
2007-03-19 05:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is all about you? maybe so... but why don't you be the one that your husband will look at... be sexy... be the girlfriend not the wife. get it?
2007-03-19 05:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were lucky..
2007-03-19 05:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's in our D.N.A.
2007-03-19 05:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋