hi i was wondering how i can get my gf to do more sexual positions cuz all we usually do is the regular ones...me on top...her on top..how do i get her to expiriment with me?
2007-03-19 05:35:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You can try the right hand and the left.
I am sure neither will be offended.
2007-03-19 05:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
She probably wants to make you happy... so have you asked/told her yet? She might be shy about it, so you should take charge and tell her what you would like to try (something simple at first probably). Buy a book or something, and pick something you both would like to do.
BUT... if she already knows you want to, but still doesnt try anything new, then thats something else. If this is the case I would suggest trying to change position mid-act.... (dont force or anything, but see if she follows) and if she gets really mad at you then maybe its time for a new girl if the positions matter that much to you.
If you HAVE talked about it, has she given you any reasons why she doesnt want to try new positions?
2007-03-19 13:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by girlvette2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her.
Buy her a copy of Cosmopolitan magazine. It's full of ideas every month. Or visit your local book store. Just tell her you want to try some more fun things that will make the experience more enjoyable for both of you.
2007-03-19 23:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rayvin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, there are some things you need to talk about first, but I don't think a new position for something you normally do is one of them.
Just put her into the position you want. If she objects, she'll let you know.
2007-03-19 16:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it openly and honestly outside the bedroom in a non-sexual setting. Have you tried getting a book and having her pick a position or two?
2007-03-19 12:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by aqx99 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should have an honest discussion with her. Tell her you want to try something different, spice it up. Tell her that you are willing to try things she may be interested in too. Make her feel safe by telling her that if she doesn't like it, you'll not force her.
2007-03-19 12:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by Insurance Biz CT 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
just take the lead,if sh does not want to do it she will tell you.you should tell each other what you like and dont like.thats when you start havin good sex.
2007-03-19 13:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by carmengrace25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her not us. Tell her what you want and ask her what she wants. Then go for it.
2007-03-19 12:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by bugs280 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
put her on all fours
2007-03-19 20:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show her what you want to do...she will do it
2007-03-19 12:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by dumbo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋