friend help! so 3 of us friends had some issues with each other , one of them went and tole the other friend?

Question

that i had said somethings, and now the other friend got all upset at me- so we talked it out and we agreed to get over the issue - so when i saw both of my friends this weekeend , i felt really awkward seeing them both, espeicially the one that snitched on me, so i just made small talk and now im feeling totally not even excited anymore to see them, how cani get over this feeling ? of feeling betrayed and hurt and to top it off, i live 6 hours away from both of them , only get to see them every 2 months , but we email all the time -
im feeling really down and i wished things had been left alone , everything was fine then-
thanks in advance

Answer 1

I was in a situation exactly like this..i mean EXACTLY..

First, we ended up getting all into an arguement, it was a bunch of she said this, she said that..
But eventually we all agreed to get over, but this fight was big, we all got suspended because of it, and i was in the middle of it, not doing anything i had to hear all the crap and everything somehow they dragged me into it..

we all drifted apart eventually, and got new friend, we all went seperate ways, but we are all still friends, not as good as we were but we are still friends, and we do hang out on occcasion..

I think you should try making new friends, but remember dont forget about your old ones, over time things will get better.

hope i helped.

Answer 2

I have the same problem you do right now. Last night a good friend of mine came yelling and crying at me because I told the other friend something in secret and he ran back and told her about it I was so upset and hurt I did not know how to act about it. I have not said anything to the friend who told on me I dont know if I will either Ill let them come to me if they want. I see these two people everyday your lucky you dont half to do that. If you wanna say something to her tell her it hurt your feelings that she would tell something u told her not to tell and that u are upset with her maybe having time away from her will help you out also. If you dont wanna say anything just know now that you cant trust her and dont tell her anything you would not want anyone elese not to know it sucks when u cant trust a friend but its good to know for the future.

Answer 3

the only way to get rid of feelings is to express them and if u feel like you've betrayed ur friend then tell her that u feel real bad and be completely serious because u can't let it sit, it never works,ask them if they still like u and because u don't get together frequently just means the time spent is more important so u can't waste it on feeling awkward and down, they r ur friends remember the reason u became friends, if u still feel bad after all this and they still make u feel awkward then maybe the friendship wasn't meant to be

Answer 4

hi,
these friends are getting closer to each other and leaving you out it seems, if this is so forget about them if you do not want the drama, if you feel there is a chance to rekindle the relationship that the two of you had the someone has to swallow their pride and take the blows and it sounds as if they have chosen you for that job.

Answer 5

WELL,THE FRIEND WHO TOLD IS NOT TRUSTWORTHY,AND SHE DOESN'T HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO,SO I KNOW YOU ARE HURTING,BUT LEARN FROM THIS IN YOU OWN WAY,I AM SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO YOU.