my man is playing mind games with me!!! he wont answer his phone or text messages because we had a row on thursday, i have not contacted him today at all, do you think he will get in touch if i leave him well alone? its pathetic i know!!! why do they do it???
2007-03-19 05:32:15 · 38 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just leave him alone to GROW UP!
It takes a while so go out with friends and have some fun meantime!!
2007-03-19 05:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face it both men and women play mind games. Just leave him alone for a while, sometimes rows bring you closer together. As to why they do it. Just think of why you do it, then maybe you'll understand that the reason is always valid when the boot is on the other foot, and then we calm down..........
2007-03-19 08:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Loxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. He's being a prat. It's been 4 days since your arguement now and he should get over it. Just text him once more to tell him that you're not playing his stupid mind games anymore and if he wants to talk to you, he knows how to contact you. Then leave it. If he cares about you then he'll come back. He possibly likes having you chasing him and the feeling of being in control. If you ignore him then he's more likely to snap out of it and call you.
2007-03-19 05:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by lollysarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men play mind games because they have no freaking idea on how to deal with women. Be the bigger person here and let him know subtly that there wont be too much tolerance for these things the next time around.
2007-03-19 05:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Power game, baby.... Like to feel that you are chasing them and it makes him feel good... Pull back on the calls and texting... leave him to get over his 'thing' and he will eventually make contact cos he'll think you've lost interest. Dont let him do it to you again... need to be a little stronger than that.. You need to play him at his own game. So next time this happens... dont call...bite you're hand if you have to but dont!!!
2007-03-19 05:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by chiccigyal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh for sure. Men use their height and then manipulate a situation. Have been there myself in my twenties. Am older and wiser now.Hate men who use women for sex. My whole family of blokes do this. My older borther uses escorts (classy pros) and does not even hide it from me. I go over there and he has sleazy dvds out and porn on the wall once, and in his cupboards. He has no shame but i like him as he is quite sweet. My Dad used to use my mom for sex till she kicked him out of the bedroom. I don't even like to think what my other brother does for kicks. I set him up with a girl and we saw her a few weeks ago. He pretends she does not exist (I am sure he is inlove with her and vice versa) she is a little older. I like her myself in fact i let her know I was her first girlfriend. No wonder Chris never married, he cant' see a good thing s for this penis.
2016-03-29 06:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men and women play these games. You'll just have to give him time to think about whether he's going to contact you or not.
It also depends on what the row was about!
2007-03-19 05:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him alone. You are giving him all the power. Go out with some friends and don't rub it in his face, that will be the start of another fight. He's off licking his wounds, let him be. Have some fun and make sure you don't drunk dial him!
2007-03-19 05:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about being in control.
I bet everytime you phone him he laughs to himself then doesnt answer.
As long as your ringing him he has no reason to ring you, he knows he hasnt lost you
my advice is not to ring him at all, let him come crawling back to you.
If you give in then he will have no respect for you and you can only expect to be walked all over throughout your relationship.
in fact if you want my real advice dump him and dont look back men like this do not change. good luck honey be strong.
2007-03-19 05:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you are not happy with the games find a new man.
Both Sexes play games
2007-03-19 05:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋