2007-03-19 05:29:04 · 12 answers · asked by TO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
or leaving the family?? even he is with us, he hardly stay home or bring the family out? everyweek, he went pubbing at least twice..
2007-03-19 05:38:59 · update #1
It is not military. we are staying put for the kids are still schooling n one of them need regular medical checkup. he did hope that we can go with him but after much thought, he felt that it is better for him to go alone instead. Now I am struggling with my work, house n the children
2007-03-23 04:57:50 · update #2
No, I believe he's working and you should support him for that. So many times, we assume that others are cheating and being unfaithful. It's a sad comment on what we've come to.
2007-03-25 18:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Brett C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the Army and spent 4 years in Germany. I saw the Soldier's that went to Germany and left their families in the States or elsewhere for two years. You know where I say those Soldiers? At the bar, club, barracks rooms, partying drinking and doing things married men don't ordinarily do. Families can be moved to Germany at government expense NO Problem. Aside from that a two year work commitment without your family is too long. People can change over night, 2 years.... that's a lot of changes. Good luck
2007-03-19 14:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Keith C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is in the military and is being forced to deploy, two years is way more then a "work" commitment. Clearly there is more to it then that and you have every right to be angry. What are you suppose to do for sex and companionship during this time. Not to mention who is going to help you with the kids? If he is not willing to bring you and the kids along, you should consider filing for divorce.
2007-03-19 12:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you stay? Jobs often take us from our families, that's the sad reality of having to work for a living. If this job is for the betterment of your family status financially or otherwise, try to understand sometimes you have to make sacrifices to improve your quality of life. Will ya'll visit or him come home during this 2 years? Is joining him an option?
2007-03-19 12:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that he is willing to do whatever to take care of the financial needs of his family, but there are other responsibilies a husband and father needs to consider too. A woman has more needs than just the financial ones, she has emotional needs too. I hope you can hold out for two years while he's gone. I hope he can hold out as well.
2007-03-19 12:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S WORKING. Nothing more, nothing less. Quit worrying and be proud of your husband for sacrificing time with his family to earn a good living for all of you!
2007-03-19 12:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree and go along with Keith c he is in the army so he knows what hes talking about my brother was in viet nam in sixties he was in the army i just admire soldiers i had to coment
2007-03-23 00:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a work commitment. Let it go. This stuff happens.
2007-03-19 12:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes..
2007-03-19 12:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he makes a lot of money "no"
If he dont make a lot of money "yes"
2007-03-19 12:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jana U 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋