I recently found of that my wife is in love with someone else. We are trying to fix the situation with no luck so far. Recently my wife's parents are in our house. During the conversation, I mentioned to them that my dad, who lives outside US, is going through some health problems and would like to see the grand kids. I told them that My wife, kids and I would like to visit them for 10-14 days. My wife's dad didn't agree for sending her daughter as he was worried that my parents might ask her about the relationship she is having with this guy. Then I said fine and asked them if I can go with my daughters. My wife's brother said, no I cannot go without the permission of their mother. Then I asked them if you are worried about the kids then one of you can come with me. They told me that they need to think about it and will get back to me at a latter time. I am not sure if I have any options here. Can you help me with it please?
2007-03-19 05:26:24 · 9 answers · asked by Perplexed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are YOUR children. You don't need their uncles or their grandparents' permission unless for some reason THEY have custody.
Your wife doesn't need their permissiont o go anywhere either. Even if you are married and she is a minor, being married makes her legally responsible for herself.
2007-03-19 05:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Betsy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry to hear this. It sounds very complicating.
The best thing I would do if i were you, is stick to the wife and your own family plans. I know it is so hard situation, but you don't sound very upset that she is in love with someone else. You seem to have accepted this? Why can't you be a bit more tougher my friend, you can't just leave people do things just to hurt your own heart.
- Firstly your wife has gone with someone else, and you should really be angry, and play as hard as you can, - let alone her family to tell you what to do?
you must be joking! I would make sure to get what i want, since my heart would have been broken by the wife being in love with someone else ??? oh god!
2007-03-19 05:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Spark S 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can certainly take your children to visit their grandfather at any time you want. Permission from the other parent is not necessary since you are both still married to each other and share parental responsibilities.
It was kind of you to ask "permission" but completely unnecessary. However, if you are planning to kidnap your children and keep them in a foreign country to punish your wife -- forget about it!
2007-03-19 05:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to sound harsh, BUT STAND UP AND BE strong! That is YOUR family! NOT your wife's father's family. They are choking and emasculating you! They are in the wrong. I'm sure there is a lot to the story, but take charge and then they will respect you. You can't ask crazy inconsiderate people for permission. You're grown. TELL them don't ASK them what is going to happen. God bless. Godspeed.
2007-03-19 05:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-19 02:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by balikos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes your wife, your problems and who you discuss them with is your business, not her parent's. They are just SOL if you 2 decider to go visit, they have no say. Period, put your foot down. Not that you should tell your wife that you are taking her, but that her parents need to butt out, its not their decision.
2007-03-19 05:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are not divorced, neither of you have sole custody so you can take your kids with you wherever you go!
2007-03-19 05:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go
2007-03-19 05:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go by yourself
2007-03-19 05:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋