friend help! please hurry!?

Question

ok my best friend and me always fight over the dumbest stuff for example: she always points out the fact that i "get all the guys" which i dont think is true, i mean alot of guys ask me out, but i dont like them like that. (Shes kind of a tomboy if your wondering.) then theres this girl(one year younger then us) on our block and she looks up to me and not my friend, which also pisses her off alot, she say stuff like "yea well sarah kisses your *** all the time" which i also dont think is true. i really have no idea on what i should do. please tell me, oh and dont say anything like dont be her friend anymore because i would die without her in my life, literally, shes the only one who can help me with my problems.

Answer 1

Well then its time for you to realize that she isn't near as socially confident as you. Might be the reason she choose you as her friends. While you on the other hand choose her because she isn't as socially confident as you. In the battlefield that is human relationships nothing is simple and the lines are always blurred. Ether way your just dealing with normal human insecurities and its great to see that you wouldn't let that get in the way of a decent relationship with her. Good thing to get in a habit of is calling her on it. Tell her to stop worry about such things because it isn't wants important. Whats important is true, deep, emotionally fulifilling relationships. And scraficing having boys hit on you or having kids worship you to have just that isn't all that bad. Besides she'll have her own, just tell her to be patient and that till then and even after you'll always be there for her. You should know her better then anyone so I think your in the knowledge that she puts up walls that make it harder for her to socialize in the same way you do. Make her see that its different strokes for different folks, that the grass always looks greener, and that she is really isn't miss out on much. Shoot just remind her you didn't come on to yahoo! answers because you care a flip about them. And then maybe she'll see that even after all those other people get done fighting for your attention, she is still in the lead without even trying, just by being herself. That in its on right is more powerful then anything a stranger could do for her.