I have 4 kids with the man i spent 8 yrs with he took 3 away from me. 1 is bypolar, pst, adhd. my daughter is also adhd both on meds. the other one is 11yrs old. this man beat me mental abused me, tried to kill me and my kids, he went to prison for killin a child,before we meet. we now have joint costody of the 3 kids. they stay with him durin the week for school. they are always dirty. they have very low selfesteam now they are scared! there dad deald and does drugs right in front of them. they have told dcfs this they dont wanna listen to none of us. i have a lawer, but there dad has his way of getting around everything! my kids are scared of what he might do to them. this man has also went to prison for a drug rade while my kids were there. they had to c all of this. my other son lives with me, he has been in and out out of hospitals the court made him c his father he flipped out he is also bypolar pst adhd. there dad just had a shooting at his hose and the granpas house im scared?
2007-03-19 05:05:04 · 3 answers · asked by sweet angel 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Call child protection services or have someone else call and report this, nobody here can help what is your lawyer doing? he/she should put an emergency to the courts for the welfare of the children if they are living in a drug house.
2007-03-19 05:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you absolutely cannot trust this man with your children, you need to get them out of there. If he is mentally abusing them, dealing drugs in front of them, and otherwise setting a bad example as an unfit parent, the courts should take the children to a safer environment. I think the only reason that the courts will not grant you full custody of your children is because you cannot prove that they will be better off with you, however I still believe that he poses more danger to the children than you ever will. If you are scared for the safety of your children, then get them out! No one can avoid the law forever, so all you have to do is offer sufficient evidence that he is not the "best choice" for your children. Hope you and your children are safe. Good luck!
2007-03-19 05:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by kougajinaroku 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IN this situation I am all for Taking your own children and running--Keep them safe, however keep in touch with your lawyer, but Honestly--take the kids and go.
2007-03-19 05:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by HappyGoLucky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋