My husband and I have been together for 5 years now and have a 2yr old daughter. We love each other very much and are always very affectonate with each other. Neither one of us is happy with what is going on in our lives and have had really bad luck with everything! The only thing we are happy about is that we are married to each other and have a baby. We never fight but both of us being "down" is really taking a toll on us. It seems like as soon as we are making changes to get us out of this rut- something else goes wrong (this week it was a business partner stealing 14k from my husband's business- putting us in a very bad financial situation). The problems never seem to end. We're both sick of it all and are hating our lives (but not each other). It's hard to be down and live with someone who feels just as depressed. Have you ever been in this situation?
2007-03-19 04:54:33 · 18 answers · asked by Erin H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm in that situation!! I'm so sorry that you share in my same state of defeat. The only thing you can do is turn to your husband and child and realize that nothing else matters. No matter what bad luck you get, how awful life may be, those are your blessings. Those two are what you exist for. Everything else will eventually be resolved, have faith in eachother and the sun will shine again for you both soon.
2007-03-19 05:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by erin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kindof in the same situation with my boyfriend. him and i are very much in love with each other, but everything else in our lives sucks. We hate going to college, we hate all of the bills pilling up, we hated our jobs so we both quit and we are still unhappy. As hard as it is to be with someone who also as unhappy as you, the best thing to do is stay with them, because think of how unhappy you would be without them? My boyfriend and i have been going out for walks whenever we get really bored, or sad and it really helps. Just because u are in a rut now, doesnt mean you cant be happy too. Good Luck :)
2007-03-19 05:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Namename 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorta. Maybe you should both undergo some type of counseling, together or seperately. It would be very easy to let things like that come between a marriage. As long as you recognize it, hopefully your streak of bad luck will end. We sometimes have to endure bad times just in order to really appreciate the good ones. If you both love each other, don't forget that. The Bible says love conquers all. In your situation, I believe that to be true.
2007-03-19 05:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone went through some situations or felt the same. that's just part of life... what ever gets in the way... problems, messed up situations... it can be solved. at least... at the end of the day... you still have a loving family that will stick with you no matter what... and it's very good you don't have to work on that.
2007-03-19 05:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been in this situation before, especially with the embezzlement part. I know this sounds corny but things will get better. I promise. In my opinion you are way ahead of the game, you and your husband have each other. Just hang in there and things will begin to get better.
2007-03-19 05:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by oneontaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 04:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no Ive not been in that situation but counseling might help and i know if you love each other threw rough times you can go threw anything were not promised life full of roses joy . just face things together and don't give up go out some and injoy life and pray for your financial needs to be met
2007-03-22 17:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a test of Faithfulness......Will you travel down the Road with Him/Her through the thick and thin.....Right now you are going through the Thin but the crap is thick. Wait it out. It will get better and the load will get lighter.......Thank God that only 14K was stolen before the load got Heavier. Thank God he got found out sooner and not later. That in is it's self is a blessing.....You Will Make it......
2007-03-19 05:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to recommend a vaction, were you have to rely on other people to take care of your day to days. Have your hubby appoint an office manager, and take your daughter on a little vacation. If you do this befor APRIL 12 you can get it fairly cheap considering that is the start of vacation season.
2007-03-19 05:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by todaedj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. It will pass. Take a class at your community college on psychology. You may not understand this logic now, but you will when the class is done.
2007-03-19 05:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋