Alright, I'm going to keep it as un-stereotypical as possible, and I'm really sorry if I sound ignorant. I'm a 14 year old girl that originally lived in a small town in the middle of nowhere, USA. It was 99.9% white. However, I recently moved to an international school in another country, and it is full of people from around the world. I was really happy to get to know about new countries.
To get to the point though! There is this boy in my class who is originally from Korea, even though he speaks fluent English. I really like him, and I would consider us to be friends as we talk sometimes and help each other out. But I can't really tell if he likes me or if he is just being polite. If he's just being polite then there probably is no point in pursuing our relationship. How can I tell? Does he not like me? Or maybe he only goes for Korean girls?
I have never had a boyfriend before, so that may also be a factor of my confusion.
I appreciate the help!
2007-03-19 04:45:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Hey, don't be confused. I'm a Korean boy myself. I go to a school where the student body is diverse. I like many girls there (white, asian, etc.). I'm also friends with them. I like them too but I feel like they might not want what I want, just like you.
Here's some advice: continue being a friend with the guy you like. If he starts to hang out with you more often or even asks you to go out, that's a sign you should consider.
I hope this answers your question.
2007-03-20 15:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old he is...either way, start out as being friends and if it grows into more than that, love has no boundaries. I don't think his cultural differences or race will have any bearing on how well you get along. You are going to a multinational school so I think acceptance is the rule there, certainly more than in "nowhere, USA".
2007-03-19 11:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Brent W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just ask ?ask him if he likes you as a friend or if maybe he might like you for a girlfriend.tell him how much you like him and you dont want to lose his friendship if he just wants to be friends thats cool too,you just was wondering.good luck!
2007-03-19 11:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋