Do women enjoy sex? If so, why do they want men to pay for it? Shouldn't women pay for it too then?
2007-03-19 04:44:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think women who say "Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free" are looking for a commitment from the men that they would sleep with.
There are many men who are happy to sleep with women, but want nothing more. The women making the above statement do not want just casual sex.
I am sure that these women enjoy sex, but they want the emotions that come with making love rather than just having sex.
On the other hand, some men are so desparate for sex that they are willing to pay a female for it. The other benefit for these men is that there is no commitment beyond the money.
As far as men who date women for sex, that is controlable only when the women do not sleep with the men on the first or second date. Once the men realize that there has to be more of a commitment in order to get the sex, they will usually go elsewhere.
Sex should be a part of sharing love rather than just casual. But there are many people who are happy with casual sex. Perhaps that is fine for them, but I often wonder if they ever have any real and lasting relationships.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-19 05:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy sex. But it does not mean that I give it out to every Tom , Dick or Harry . To me when you make love with someone it should be because you love them and they love you. Not for a one night stand. How do you feel waking up in the morning after you had sex with some one you hardly know. Life is too short to have one night stands. I want to feel better about myself. I want pride and self respect. I don't want to be the one night stand . If I wanted to do that I would stand on the street corner and sell myself. These girls are giving it away.
2007-03-19 13:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK. Here's the thing. A woman with no morals and no self-respect may be fine with having sex with a man who has no intention of making a commitment, and she may stay with him indefinitely. A woman who knows her own value and knows that she is better than that will want a commitment. It has nothing to do with "paying for sex" and everything to do with wanting a real relationship, not a "friends with benefits" situation. When a man says he does not want to get married, it means he does not want to marry YOU. Probably because he is getting everything he wants anyway, so why bother?
2007-03-19 11:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex without feelings, love or commitment is hollow.
Sex with the person you love and who loves you back is the best thing in the world.
2007-03-23 11:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why buy the pig for just a little sausage?
2007-03-19 12:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Pam R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think women say that, i think a man made that one up!
yes!
men are dumb if they pay for sex
and no!
2007-03-19 11:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like what "greeneyes75" said.
2007-03-19 11:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SWEET YOU IT SWEET ME WHO SHOULD PAY? MEN WE SHOULD REVOLT. THE TWO SHOULD PAY.
2007-03-19 11:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im a man and ive paid for sex.... BLOODY HELL HAVE I PAID FOR SEX........
2007-03-19 14:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋