What is wise for an Indian girl , to get married in Joint Family or to reside separately with husband?

Answer 1

Depends on the person. If you are in for some adjustments and if you really love your guys and if he insists on joint family, then you dont have a choice. But if it is not the case, then it entirely depends on your choices. Living in a joint family can be fun since there is always someone to take care ofyou. but it also requires some comprimising mentality.

Answer 2

Both system of living separate or in a joint family have the good and bad parts but it depends upon what you want.

If you want privacy and more savings ,then living alone with husband is the better choice.
Otherwise,Joint family is always better as it brings the support and best wishes from more number of people in the joint family.
You sit with your husband for an hour,take apiece of paper and list down the merits and demerits of both the ways of living and it will make things more clear for you and your husband to select the best option.

Given a choice joint family is better.
Sometimes , it becomes mandatory to live alone with the husband as both of the parents could not move away from their roots to be with you two if you are posted elsewhere.
In the present days,where both are working at different destinations, even living with the husband is not possible and you are lucky if you can meet your partner at week ends.
Nowadays,
Career Must,
Family Must.
How to balance the two.
That is themain issue today and staying in a joint family is nolonger an issue.
Money is the common factor which can unite the family members as many times as possible on weekends,birthdays and festivals.

At last , the choice is yours/ours for the way of living, as the choice of birth and death are not with anyone(except death in the case of brutalities of suicides and murders.

Answer 3

Getting married and reside both are entirely different issues. Getting married to a joint family should not be the hitch, because being young you will always need the help and guidance of your senior family members. Their experience and personnel contacts would help you to solve n numbers of problems in your day to day life.
As far as residing with/separately is your sole matter. Reason being if you are a working lady you need some one to receive you when you come back after a tired day haul. You need your freedom to have all the enjoyments as per your desire and liberty to make fun.
At the same time after your first delivery you will badly require some one to look after you and your kid. Here you would have catch 22 if you dont have good relation with your family members and relative you would be screwed like aany thing and face N numbers of problems in your day to day life.
At last I would suggest to get married in joint family(though you will have to pay the cost) and reside as per your own convinance.

Answer 4

Traditionally Indian family is a joint family. But this is seen less often these days coz of culture metamorphosis. In India every parent thinks their children to be their support in old age ('Budhapey ka sahara' as they put it) not only financially but also emotionally. And so living with them gives them immense joy. But in a joint family the central character is the newly wed bahu and it requires a great deal of patience and sacrifice to bind everyone together. Considering all the above the best course would be to stay with your in-laws initially with a mutual understanding that these few days are a test of compatibility for both sides. But if there is any sign of dissatisfaction or misunderstandings its better to part of mutually and happily.

Answer 5

It is better to get married in a joint family. Inlaws will share the joys and sorrows and assist in need. This is the excellence of the Indian culture, diminishing by influence of the western culture. Spouses living separately face much problems, their children will not get proper elderly care and attention; they too will follow them after marriages.

Answer 6

you'll be much happier living alone with you husband and having your own family. When you live in a joint family there are way to many problems. I am not married but everyone woman in my family that has lived in a joint family always has more problems than she can deal with and these problems effect all relationships. When you are with your husband your your own family and not part of someone else in which you have to follow their rules and expectations. This allows you to be more free and happy.

Answer 7

Depends on what you want. In a joint family, you have to comprimise more because there are more people all with their preferences and interests. But the good things is there is always someone around for company and help, esp when you have children, it is great to have that help.

Answer 8

Reside separately with husband if he loves her very much, has good separate spacious own accomodation, has enough financial power to fulfil her all requirements & desires & does not impose any household work at all.

Answer 9

I would never share my marriage with another family! In the United States, it is not common for a couple to marry and live with another family. It is more cusomary to live separately with your spouse.

Answer 10

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