I have been with my husband for 5 years,married for 1 and 2 kids,i dream about escaping abroad on my own when the kids have grown up,is that terrible? Yes,i really do want to do it!
2007-03-19 04:35:58 · 18 answers · asked by heebygeeby 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to stop dreaming and start to think about your husband and kids
2007-03-19 04:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy Z 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Not sure if you mean you want to leave your husband, have a fling one day, or just get away from it all for a while.
My wife takes short holidays on her own or with girlfriends once or twice a year, it's fantastic to be completely selfish for a few days, can be a bit depressing when it's over but on balance it's well worth it.
I've no doubt she gets chatted up by men on the prowl while she's away but it actually doesn't bother me, she comes back well rested, in a good mood, and horny as hell!
2007-03-19 06:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by brooking1955 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably just need a break, most of those guys that hang around at holiday resorts are after either:
sex
Or a passport to another country.
Just think of all the other "Shirley Valentines" there are out there, just think they have probably had a different woman every week...yuck...the grass is not always greener.
2007-03-19 05:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound happy?!? Find ways of making yourself happy. Your husband know how you feel? Do you want him to find out the day you do your Shirley valentine thing? Leave him with out giving him a chance to rekindle your love for one another? Crikey you've not been together long. Try to sort it out, for your sake (as you deserve to be happy now) and for your kiddies and hubby. Everyone deserves another Chance at something.
2007-03-22 02:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all my kids who are now ages 9 - 20 are well aware of the fact that when theyve all finally left mum is of to french polynesia for a long time just for her and they all think its a great idea that mum still has the energy to want to do something crazy and they say their all coming to the airport to cheer me off as ny then ill have given them almost 30 years of my life so will have earnt so me time yippe only 12 years to go
2007-03-19 08:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by dottydog 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just have a short break with yout friends! That will do the trick, the grass isnt always greener as they say!
2007-03-19 04:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By the time your kids have grown up, you'll have changed your minds a dozen times on what you want to do.
2007-03-19 04:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by jet-set 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yea... when your kids are young and you are a newly wed things are bound to be stressful, but just maybe relax try and plan a trip for when they are away at college and maybe it will help you relax!?
2007-03-19 04:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by osty 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Go for a two week break with friends
and see how you feel
somewhere you've always wanted to go..
2007-03-19 04:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gee, that's really selfish of you....imagine the heartache your husband will feel once youve shacked up with Pierre and contracted herpes.
2007-03-19 04:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by Annal 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋