Why do females like hating on other females?

Question

I have a friend who is dealing with two girls who don't like her. She does not speak to them, and they don't talk to her. They give her evil looks, and try to make her look bad. They work at the same place she does, but they have a higher job than she does.

Answer 1

From having worked for years in a schoolyard of a “progressive” school with excellent techniques for dealing with bullying among kids I noticed a few things. Boys fight over territory and rights. They tend to get physical. When placed together to discuss the problem and come up to a solution they usually instantly bond and come up with a workable solution because they want to play again.

Girls were different. Their fighting was harder to notice. Subtle and cruel to the bone. When a situation arose, they would rather stay silent and seethe than “work it out”, sometimes losing an entire recess in the process. They fought over social issues most often. If not dealt with properly in children, it blossoms into what we see so often today.

Girls who behave like this are the product of feminism gone so badly you cannot imagine. This behaviour is the result of poisons fed to us in the 50’s and 60’s. The poison was like a coin: on one side girls were being urged to burn their bras and be more equal than boys, in academic and athletic endeavors; boys were being systematically dumbed down and taught what I call, for lack of a better word, “Playboysism”, the philosophy that women are fire hydrants and men are dogs.

The introduction of feminism is an excellent example of how the Rockefeller mega cartel uses the awesome power of the mass media (i.e. propaganda.) to control society. In 40 short years, many women have lost touch with their natural loving instincts. Consequently, the family is in disarray, sexual depravity is rampant and birth rates have plummeted.

What I will say is going to grate many people because it is not politically correct, but please follow my logic to the end. Later I will expand on the Rockefeller's role, but first we need to remember that for a woman, love can easily include an instinctive act of self-sacrifice, a quaint and restrictive attitude but it is as true now as it ever was. That is because such a woman raises a strong family and such a thing is anathema to the New World Order and their vision for humanity.

The entire concept of love and marriage have been "discredited," women have nothing left to exchange for love but sex. How much trouble did shows like Friends and Sex in the City create by giving young women these role models of easy come easy go jaded females who use men like tissues? Girls are programmed to abandon the concept of relationships for the lure of what are frequently mundane careers. Boys are taught that marriage ties them down and that “freedom” from the same obligation that would make men of them is a bad thing.

These girls are unnaturally obsessed with appearance and pathetically give their bodies to all and sundry. Yet somewhere inside we all know that permanent love is not based on a woman's sex appeal, or personality or achievements. Ultimately, it is based on self-sacrifice. Feminism is mass indoctrination because they cannot identify the perpetrator, the means or the motive. Are you beginning to understand now?

Recently Aaron Russo, the producer of Bette Midler's movies and "America: From Freedom to Fascism" identified all three confirming what I have been saying.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFO9ZmouaFk

We used to say, "as American as motherhood and apple pie." Feminism has deprived many women of a secure and honored role by reducing them to sex objects and replaceable workers. It has certainly unsexed a great many good heterosexual men and prevented them from leading the honourable lives they were intended to lead as head of a household.

People are malleable creatures who believe what they are told instead of trusting their own reason or perception. To destroy the family, the media convinced women that they could not rely on the heterosexual contract. Ten minutes on television and one concludes that men are unfaithful rats, abusive monsters, dishonest scumbags, or all of the above. Women on the other hand are flinty flirty achievers who triumph despite the cavemen who want to keep them in their place. All the while wearing killer heels and exposing maximum cleavage and leg.

Girls are told because you are woman, you remain victim in society as a whole. Thus women must have a sense of grievance, entitlement and rebellion. The same tactic was used to manipulate Jews, Blacks, workers and gays. So to further isolate women from the traditional family, liberation and narcissism have merged. Leisure now means, time for yourself, spent alone, or perhaps with one's girlfriends but definitely without spouse and kids. Don’t get me wrong, we all need time to energize and renew ourselves but this new feminist gospel proclaims that indulging yourself is an important part of being a healthy, well adjusted woman. Whatever happened to a weekend at the cottage with the family?

Sex is not reserved for love and marriage. Young women are encouraged via magazines to "put out on their first date, ogle men openly" and be an athlete in bed. There is no discussion of marriage or family. Such women can't trust a man enough to surrender themselves in love. Self-fulfillment lies in career success and not husband and family. The social rewards of holding down a job are critical to one's sense of dignity and self worth. I'm not saying women can't have jobs, only they shouldn't be tricked out of having families if they want them. These magazines emphasize techniques for good sex, not techniques for a truly fulfilling life.

Meanwhile, Playboy Magazine etc. aimed a similar message at men stating one did not need marry for sex. Marriage and children are a hindrance. There are beautiful women everywhere and with the availability of porn, many men have forgotten to see past the onslaught of blatant sexuality. Women’s bodies hold no mystery. Instead they hold up an impossible ideal of airbrushed perfection few women can keep up for long. The wreckage of broken families and dysfunctional people is strewn everywhere

Now you maybe see why girls are like this. They have been trained to be shallow more often than not. This goes both ways I am sorry to say. But you know not all girls are like that, just as not all boys are like that!

Answer 2

I have been blessed to have had limited experiences in dealing with other women who don't like me for whatever reason. Although, I can only assume that when we as people (regardless of our gender) "hate" on someone else; it's usually because they posses something we want for ourselves (confidence, status, material posessions, etc.). The behavior of these two females does sound like that of what we would expect from girls, not grown women in the workplace. Nonetheless, there are a few approaches that can be taken. One, insist on not reducing yourself to their level by "mirroring" their behavior or attitudes. Second, confront them through conflict resolution; hopefully this is an option with the help of supervisors. Third, if there has been efforts made to address the issues and nothing has changed, then unfortunately the female who is being harrassed just may need to ask herself how important is the job? A grievance or formal complaint can be filed especially if the other females are involved in the supervisoring of the female who is being bothered. HTH (:-))

Answer 3

Well, not all women are like this. The ones who are tend to have some deep seated insecurity issues which they are not consciously aware of, as these feelings are so deeply ingrained in their subconscious.

So when someone comes along that stirs up these deeply ingrained feelings, they may feel threatened and can become defensive, not really knowing why. If these peole would try to look at the reasons they feel this way, it might help them to overcome these negative feelings.

HTH : )

Answer 4

Here is some wisdom from Seinfeld:

"Why do they call it a wedgie?"
"Because the underwear is pulled up from the back until... it wedges in."
"They also have an Atomic Wedgie. Now the goal there is to actually get the waistband on top of the head. It's very rare."
"Boys are sick."
"What do girls do?"
"We just tease someone until they develop an eating disorder."
- Elaine, George and Jerry, in "The Library"

But seriously -- in my experience from high school years boys a physically rough (pants people, fighting, stuffing people into lockers, and the like). Girls are not physical but they tease and spread rumors.

Answer 5

If she is pretty, they are probably jealous. If she tries to keep her "nose clean", they are envious. For whatever reason they dislike her, they are wrong to mistreat her. And it is just as wrong to give the same treatment back. She should wear a smile and do something kind for them every occasion she gets. Over come evil with good, as our book of wisdom advises.

Answer 6

Jealousy in most cases ..and Lack of Self Confidence within themselves. they end up being the bullies of others. So sad and uncivilized. Almost animal like.
Through their own lack of self confidence they prey upon others with a sick vengance .

Its pretty sad actually when one feels uncomfortable so their is little self confidence that the others have. Sad huh. thus they belittle others with a callous attitude.

when one feels confident within themselves rarely do they need to accost another person
I have the right to confront another person when his/her behavior interferes with me.
I accept the fact that many people feel they have the right to judge me. I have the right not to accept their judgment.

Answer 7

Women are competitive by nature. There are always going to be people who don't like you. The important thing is how you deal with it. Tell your friend to take the high road and ignore the haters.

Answer 8

Can't say i've had the problem really.. I guess we are different though, and i'm not a "typical female". I'm too chilled to care what people say. Let them talk! It's all very petty.

Answer 9

Similar poles of a magnet or similar electric charges repel from one another.

Answer 10

hating comes from jealousy and most people are haters because they want or compare what they have to what others have and they come up short ...females are naturally jealous... all of us although we may not admit it but trust we are

Answer 11

I'm no like that those are women who have low self steen