ppl say tht i am beautiful , cute , pretty....., but i just don't feel it , is it a confidence thing ? how to solve this?
2007-03-19 04:22:16 · 11 answers · asked by euphoriabelle 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is a confidence thing. You can have all the beauty in the world and it won't mean a thing if you don't have confidence to back it up. It doesn't matter if people think your beautiful, it matters if you think it. Don't let what other people think get to you. Walk into a room with your head held high. Look directly into someones eyes when your talking to them. This shows that you hold yourself in high regard. Be proud of yourself because your worth it and don't let anybody tell you different.
2007-03-19 04:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like your self esteem is low.
The BEST advice I can give you is to find a hobby. I'm dead serious--learn how to rock climb. Get your mind off how you look.
Then, at some point, spent at least $50 at a nice hair salon. Get your hair cut and highlighted--you'll feel AMAZING.
Also, work out. Do something every day. I'm not saying you're fat, but endorphines are amazing little things!!
Also, write in your journal. Figure out why you can't see yourself as beautiful. At some people you'll have to realize that you are you and nothing is going to change that!
2007-03-19 04:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're the modest type. Go buy some cute clothes or accesories and see if it will improve your confidence. Or maybe even make a list of your personal strengths. That could boost you up too.
2007-03-19 05:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by Katelynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can definitely relate because people also tell me I'm beautiful, etc. yet when I look in the mirror the face that stares back at me leaves me thinking what do they see that I don't. I finally came to the conclusion that the "beauty" people see must be in my heart, not what's on the outside.
2007-03-19 04:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ppl can tell you that many times, it won't help
you need to believe it yourself. do you feel shy when it comes to guys/girls? do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend? sometimes lack of attention can cause such a feeling.
well, change something about you. something you always wanted , but never did. even if it is a haircut or style. try to be more around people.
2007-03-19 04:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look in the morning in the mirror and tell yourself you're beautiful... yes, it's a confidence thing.
2007-03-19 05:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Analyst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are your worst critic. Perhaps you compare yourself to what you think is perfection. Ten years from now, you will look back at yourself through photos and think "Wow, I WAS really beautiful back then".
2007-03-19 04:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by newmum06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DON'T HAVE TO SOLVE ANYTHING. It's ok if you don't feel that beautiful, at least it keeps your feet on the ground ;)
2007-03-19 05:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by gameplan_xtreme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't feel like the inside is beautiful...so no matter what others say....until you feel beautiful inside....you will feel ugly.
2007-03-19 04:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you have some sort of a personality problem. get some books on personality development & self-actualization. if still this does not improve your state of mind, see a psychiatrist. you might have some form of slight depression.
2007-03-19 04:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by babytalk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋