Thinking about it? Sure! Why not? But acting upon it-having sex and wotnot...Absolutely not. In this day and age, I really think 15 is far too young to be trying to be a grown up. You are still a child and you should concentrate on being one, and on school and your academic future.
2007-03-19 04:07:15
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answered by MamiZorro2 6
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Every female thinks about kids and marriage, some at even younger ages than 15. Thinking about it isn't the problem, where the problems begin is when the child becomes sexually active. Fifteen is a rough enough age without adding sex and marriage to the mix. There is obviously something more going on in this child's life for them to be thinking seriously about marriage and kids. (If it is serious). And if it is you, get help with what ever is bothering you, find someone to talk to, and for God's sake please finish school and make a career for yourself before you involve children. Basically be sure you can support yourself and a child before you get married. You never really know a man until you live with him for a while ( or a woman for that matter). Hope this helps.
2007-03-19 15:46:23
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answered by cathy f 1
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By all means no!! You should be thinking of preparing a decent future for yourself, acquiring knowledge to allow you to be independent, or else you may have to face being in a bad relationship and not having the means to survive outside of that relationship. I know everthing looks pink-colored when you're 15, but, just watch the news. So many women stay in relationships not for love but for not having the means to provide for themselves and their kids.
Kids and marriage are great, sure, but after you have a good job, your own place. Around 25 sounds fine!!
2007-03-19 11:13:34
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answered by Atomin 5
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NO at 15 you should be having fun with your friends going to the movies, mall,and having sleep over so you can stay up all night a talk about boys .Teens that age should be concern with school and being a kid they will grow up fast enough enjoy it will you can because when you get older you will wish you had enjoyed it life isn't always easy
2007-03-19 11:07:46
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answered by Anonymous
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I can't say that it did'nt cross my mind. But i did'nt want to get married then....just day dreamed about it. I lived my life, went to college and got a degree, moved to Italy to go to school and while I was studing my boyfriend that I was day dreaming about since i was 15 surprised me and flew to Italy to propose! I still waited to finish college and now I'm 29, with a 10 month old baby and still with my 15 year old sweetheart! Live your life, hang out with your friends and be who you want to be first! You'll never feel like you missed out on life. Dreaming about kids and marriange is normal especially for a girl....we all played with dolls. But make sure you experience life before you commit. If you were to get married and have a baby now....your life would be really tough! And you would lose alot of friends and it would be hard to find other teens in your situation...so just dream and wait!
2007-03-19 11:08:03
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answered by bella_stanza 2
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Sure, I did. I also knew that I wasn't old enough nor responsible enough to raise a child. At 19, I would still like kids, but I know that I have to finish University, get a good job, get married, and save up some money first.
2007-03-19 11:27:00
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answered by bpbjess 5
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Thinking about and doing it are two different things. For girls they always fantasies about their wedding and what their husband is going to look like and how many kids they are going to have. But Acting on it at this age is not a good thing. You will loose out on am important stage in your life and will try doing it again later in life. And all boys at this age are still very immature and not ready to have any responsibility, you'd end up doing it alone and be very sad. But I'm sure you know this.
2007-03-19 11:18:01
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answered by sarah 5
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no harm in thinking about it but the problem comes with acting on the thought.at 15 there is so many things to be thinking of like learning how to drive,going to summer parties,starting to date but there is no way a 15 year old is ready to be married much less having a baby.
2007-03-19 14:41:28
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answered by patbgone 3
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Thinking about it is one thing. I think at 15, you should still be a kid, but a responsible one. If you are planning to have a child at this age, you should really think about what that is going to do to the rest of your life. Its not all fun and games.
2007-03-19 11:17:13
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answered by pabasket 1
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Well since you can't get married in the USA until 16 with a parent's permission you shouldn't be thinking of marriage right now.
2007-03-19 14:15:23
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answered by Anonymous
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