has ther motherhood expereance changed your feeling twards your mom because u now have an appreation for what she went through and did for you?
2007-03-19 03:11:19 · 9 answers · asked by adriannemae 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
My mother abandoned me when I was a year old. growing up I idolized her and romanticized her. After I had my first child, I one day thought "that was a terrible thing to do to me..." and I had a VERY different view of her from then on. I still call her and stay in touch but I haven't cared what she thinks of me ever since having my own children.
Now, my step-mother, hell yeahs, she means the world to me. I always loved her but ever since having my own kids, I appreciate all she did for me even more now.
2007-03-19 03:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes! I definately have a greater understanding and appreciation for my mom! It's a great experienc(motherhood), burt it is also very challenging and a lot of hard work. I know, now, why she got so frustrated at times. I have a 4yr old, 2yr old, & 4month old twins, so I have my hands very full! People are always asking my how I do it. I hope my kids grow up to appreciate all I did for them!
2007-03-19 10:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by mom-of-4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I had a moment about one day after I had my baby when I just realized that all the mistakes my mom made don't matter, because I realized how much she must love me. Sounds kinda corny, but ever since then I feel like I understand her better.
2007-03-19 11:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by MDJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well after my daughter i had real bad post natel depression and i realise that my mum did too
i thought it was me when i was growing up
ut when i went through it i realised it was an illness
we are now soooo close it is unreal, we never where close at all when i was growing up
we talk all the time and are like soul mates for each other even though i live 500 miles away,
we fly to see each other every two months
2007-03-19 10:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by indiaalexia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMPLETELY!!! When I became a mom I finally figured out why my mother did everything she did and how much of a saint she was to deal with my crap! You can't understand that until you are a mom too.
2007-03-19 10:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah for sure. Im only young too 19 with my 1st baby and it just makes me love my mum so much more and want to be a good daughter.
2007-03-19 10:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but not because of the labor though its what they put you through after lol
2007-03-19 10:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% and i feel so guilty when i think about how bad i was to her...........remember to tell your kids this too.
2007-03-19 10:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I always have appreciated my mum anyway - you only get one mum and youll be sad when there gone!
2007-03-19 10:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by ktyibug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋