This is what's going on. My ex girlfriend still has feelings for me and I have feelings for her. I want to get back with her but her friends (or A friend) are telling her to stay away as much as possible from me so she could stop liking me. Now she doesn't even answer when I say "hi" on msn! She tries to avoid me, but she still looks at me a lot. What should I do?
2007-03-19 03:10:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yea, i agree with writing the letter or even better give her a call and talk to her or ask her if you can come over so you can talk to her.
As far as her listening to what her friend is saying...not to get back with you...well...the bottom line is noo matter what....your x is going to listen to herself. Even if she is being influenced by her friend. If she really wants to be with you noone is going to tell her otherwise.
Good Luck Man.
2007-03-19 03:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by krYpToNitEsMoM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a couple questions... what makes you think by looking at you she wants you back? How do you know her friends are telling her this? The girl has a mind of her own if she wanted you back it wouldnt matter if all her friends and family told her to stay away. If her friends have that much power over her and she cant do her own thinking why would you want her back?
2007-03-19 03:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cant arrange to meet her in private, then write to her. tell her that you believe she still has feelings for you (do you know this or just think it??) and you have strong feelings for her.
ask her to let you know how SHE feels, not how others are telling her to feel. (they prob jealous), and that if she feels the same, you would love to be back with her properly. if she does like you and want to be with you, her friend(s) should be supportive of that fact, unless you're a nutter who won't leave her alone!
also tell her that if she genuinely does not have feelings for you, to let you know gently, so that you can move on.
and if she doesnt want to be with you, you do need to move on,however hard it is, otherwise you will make an enemy instead of a friend. and there is a girl out there who IS right for you if this one osnt!
good luck, keep cool, take it easy and best wishes
2007-03-19 03:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by hedgewitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do to break up in the first place? Her friends are well meaning but they only have her side of the story. Call her and ask her to please let you have some of her time to talk. Own up to what you did wrong and beg forgiveness. Then the ball is in her court. If she won't take you back, move on. You can't make someone love you.
2007-03-19 03:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go it will take time but there is a reason you broke up. if it didn't work the first tim ewhy would it work the second. there are a million fish in the sea
2007-03-19 03:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by carrol d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have friends right? get them to trick her into meeting you, alone. Talk about whats going on or even better talk to her friends
2007-03-19 09:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a letter with how you feel and tell her that letting others live her life for her isnt going to get her any where
2007-03-19 03:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell her that if that person was a good friend they would support her no matta if she wants to be with you or not.
2007-03-19 03:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see other girls......make her mad
2007-03-19 03:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Eat your veggies! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋