what is the psychological reason of homesexuality ?

Answer 1

i am a transsexual. i have known my whole life i was female. the problem came when i found out that there were two types of people, male and female. when i found that out and i was in the wrong body, i was devestated. that was about age 2 or 3.

it wasn't too long after that because of the comments my father had made and others, well, it scared the hell out of me to tell who i was. what an impression to get at such a young age. i have been female my whole life. i was born with a
birth defect that still needs to be corrected. my soul is and
always has been female. if we did have past lives which i
believe is true, i know that i was always a female, even if one
of them had this birth defective body before.

it is not a choice. don't confuse gender with sex. if the homosexual population of the earth is all about sex, you are sadly mistaken. why could and can these people fall in love.
they wouldn't if it was just a sexual thing.

also, the gay and lesbian bashers are infringing on others human rights. discrimination on the job or not even allowing someone to work because of the hopeful employee's natural preferences. what if all homosexuals banded together and
went out bashing heterosexuals and killing them. they don't,
but that is what is happening around the world with all the ignorant people. killing homosexuals and transgender people is against the law and nature itself, for is not nature
involved with everything on this earth. some wonder why
a lot of homosexuals and transgender people stay in the closet so to speak, well i just answered it. if you don't belive me, just google homosexual and transgender hate crime deaths.

Answer 2

Maybe because they never had good sex with a female
Who knows but apart from the fact that I like women because they fell nice and soft and men are generally rather hairy and all the bits look pretty disgusting I truly cannot see why anyone would make this decision, furthermore the physical act lacks natural lubrication which is a real bummer (pardon the pun) But lets face it who cares the way i see it is that if some guy fancies some other guy that means there are two more available women so GO THE GAYS the more the bloodier merrier.
If you are religious (I am not) you can look at it another way if you do not like gays you do not need to give them **** they have a **** life to look forward to as they wil never have kids which as far as i am concerned are the greatest blessing ,so even if they do not go to hell they have purgatory on earth anyway.
I pity the innocent party which is the mums and dads of gays they have no grand kids to look forward to in their old age which is really sad for them.

Answer 3

I tend to agree with everyone else, and most of the reliable studies being done seem to conclude the same thing, even if some of them are a bit anecdotal.

I find the mention above of the transgenders to be highly interesting. I hadn't heard that yet, it certainly seems logical at face value.

All this said, I thnk there is definately psychology in what type of homosexual a person might be.(Just as hetero personality varies based on experience) Contrary to popular sterotype not all gays and lesbians (nor anyone in between) are boisterous, overly feminine or mascualine, or have pronounced lisps that mark them apart. In fact, it's probably safe to say that most aren't like this at all. They are very "normal" people who simply have different sexual needs than heterosexuals.

I may be reaching here but I'm guessing you have the sterotype in mind when you ask about the psychological reason. If so then I think most of it is a simple reaction to all the negative reinforcement they've recieved all their lives.

Imagine if you'd been told you could never eat vegetables every day of your whole life, but one day you woke up and said "Hey, these are good for me, I'm going to eat them anyway!" And in doing so you felt quite liberated from the shackles youd lived with your whole life. Would it not be logical to assume that suddenly feeling such freedom you might in turn, become highly "pro-vegetable"?

Overly simplistic perhaps, but I think the point remains.

Answer 4

As far as it is currently known, homosexuality is not caused by any trauma or psychological conditions. It is a state of being found in some individuals, and it seems entirely idiopathic for now.

Homosexuals are found in any part of society, and they have any type of background. They have not all been abused (some have, as some straight people have), and they are not mentally ill. They are homosexual (and well, they can be bisexual as well).

However, transgender people seem to have an actual condition caused by hormonal fluctuations during pregnancy, something like a higher dose of oestrogene for a male, or of testosterones for females, apparently favourise the gender identity issues of transgender people. Nothing concrete has been found.



I recomend taking the live and let live approach. Homosexuality causes no harm to the people involved, as long as they are consenting. (However, even non-consensual heterosexual relations are harmful...)

Answer 5

i don't think there is a reason,,,but it's been going on since almost the beginning of time..you can ask the same question about the psychological reason behind pedifiles..not that i'm comparing the 2 at all,,but I don't believe either one is normal. People seem to just go with the flow,,what seems right to them but,,,is it right??

Answer 6

I know there are many people who come from healthy, happy, caring home lives. So bad home life isn't always the reason. Many Lesbian and gays says that their were just born that way. I am sure that most don't choose to be this way. Silvia Browne (the psychic) says that most people who are gay are that way because in past lives they were always the other sex. Then all of as sudden a male will come back as a woman. His spirit is male. So henceforth ...................he is attracted to men because he is in the wrong body. I guess we will never know.

Answer 7

It is a thought crossing your mind that is acted upon. Perhaps out of curiosity one tries it. For sure, it is a choice that is made. To my knowledge, every human being has the instinct that it really is not right or good. That is why they try to hide it at first. The nature of people is to hide so they won't be discovered doing something that seems wrong or they KNOW is wrong but they are enjoying. I know this from experience. Wrong is never right, and Right is NEVER wrong. I am so very glad I chose the good and right when the choice was presented to me.

I was doing wrong while visiting with my cousin far from my hometown. And I KNEW it. ANd I regretted it. I said, God, if you get me home safely (4 day trip) I'll turn to you with my whole heart. I was back home 2 or three days, when God said, Remember what you promised ? I gulped hard and thought yes, I remember. It took me a while to get up my courage, but I made that decision. I asked my Maker to forgive me my wrong, and He forgave; and my heart was swept clean again. And to this day, I've never been the same since. I have the deep down desire for life and good and pleasing Him who loved me better than myself.
People are the same in every generation in their desires and choices. The practice of homosexuality is nothing new. But it is not looked upon as normal, is not in keeping with the law of nature. People are not worms, though many act like it !

Answer 8

We're not 100% sure but there appears to be a genetic proclivity for it that is either exacerbated or diminished by exposure to natal hormones from the mother.

There does not appear to be a "reason" for it. There is a very small percentage of gays that perhaps have truly "chosen" a gay lifestyle, I'm sure there are as many reasons as there are people: comfort, fear, love, hate, whatever you can think of.

Answer 9

I studied biological psychology and the evidence suggests homosexuality has a basis in genetics.

Answer 10

There isn't one. Homosexuality is in your genes and chromosomes. There are homosexuals in African tribes all the way to Siberia and always have been. You just never heard about it where you were raised.