I got exited when think of sex with him, but when i stay with him...i cant get exited...why like this? He reacts very quick...........this is becoz? He is my husband, we married secretly for last 3 years.He is 8 years older than me, I am 19 he is 27...he says, u r kid so cant feel it right now(i didnt tell him that I can feel him when he doesnt stay around me!)...
"HE is quick" means, he get active very quick.....kissing, hugging and all that. But, as i dont feel a little bit exitment, it hurt me all the time...
2007-03-19 02:43:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Your sexual excitement is secondary to his, thus the resentment
2007-03-19 02:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While he is at his prime so to speak, your body is still developing!
There is a "condition" that is recognized by medical practitioners all over the US.
Hormonal imbalance. There are many types of things that can be imbalanced here including progesterone. Progesterone is responsible for your libido but can fall quite low during pre-menopause.
Fatigue. Of course you can see that there is a real connection here. One of the most common reasons for fatigue is the fact that there is another hormonal imbalance or there is poor nutrition coming into the body.
Adrenal exhaustion can also be a factor that causes the hormones to go the wrong direction. It can be caused by medical menopause occurrences.
Stress, depression, and even child birth are also contributing factors to the lack of sex drive that women have. These situations may not be as easy to fix, but they are common signs of something being wrong.
However, your problem is not at all uncommon! I have been married to the most wonderful man for the last 13 years. We are very happy and have 2 beautiful children together. I have depended on this web site for a while for this topic.
Good Luck!
2007-03-19 10:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by rouletteldy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean.....I have a boyfriend, and we have sex.. A LOT... but sometimes it is hard doing it when your parents are aroud. So we don not have any recources like you have. We cannot watch videos or anything, we only have ourselves in the truck, or our hiding spot. Is sucks but I enjoy being close to him... Try doing some things from spencers.. They have alot of neat stuff!
2007-03-19 09:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him these things. It sounds like he's more interested in his own pleasure, than yours.
Most women take longer, to get excited, than men and he should be helping to get you excited, rather than telling you, you are a kid.
2007-03-19 09:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to slow down and give you more attention. Women need a lot more foreplay than men think.
2007-03-19 10:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, maybe it wasn't ment to be. besides your only 19 if he's your first then you are not that experienced in the sex field
2007-03-19 10:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by angel eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try watching some movies before you meet him on bed. This should make you hot.
2007-03-19 09:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you may be afraid ; "this is just a suggestion" and you should feel it when you 19, if a guy can you can
2007-03-19 09:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by swascndy21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not da 1 to judge dis but ur gay and i dont talk to gay ppl and u need 2 divorice him on divorce court
2007-03-19 09:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by c_benson06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shouldn't have gotten married at 16. and maybe you don't really love him.
2007-03-19 09:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋