Well, I contacted my ex after 6 months - since we broke up...
I met this person last year, and we were in love, we broke up 6 months back - and today i decided to just say hi online -
1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with another women - I gave it back to him, however I just dont know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??
he was so rude, waht can i do?? what do i do abt it? why would he act this way when all i did was be nice and say hi?
are all Men like this??
facts - he broke up with me....
2007-03-19 02:17:51 · 8 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No all men are def not like this ; im not sure how old are you but the response from your ex sounds quite adolescent and may have stemmed from pure boredom or his juvenile way of saying I that didnt want to talk you at the moment. Dont let it get to you; people sometimes think they can get away with saying whatever they want simply beacuse of the fact that there is no personal contact or exchange of gestures in live messaging. He probably wouldnt have said such things if he met you or ran into somewhere face to face. Now that you are fully aware that he is a total tool put him on permanent block , ignore the idiot and have fun moving on.
More power to the people I say!
2007-03-19 02:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love can very easily turn into hate. I'm not sure who said this, but I think they had it right. Love and hate are two rivers that have the same source. The more you love, the more you hate. The more you care, the easiest it is to get hurt.Love can become hate in a snap of a finger, often people in difficult relationships can't tell the difference between both. Now, pertaining to what really seems to be your question, what do you want to do about it?? You can't really do anything, you know, and who really cares? So he was rude. You broke up 6 months ago. Do you care what he thinks? If you do, then you might want to consider that he still cares about you ( He wouldn't have said that kind of thing if he was indifferent to it all.) , but if you don't, move on with life! Its too short to dwell on negative things. Find something to be happy about!Cheers!
2007-03-19 09:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe this "other woman" of his walked in and saw him writing to his ex and got jealous. Maybe it was his girlfriend on the computer and not him at all. Can't really put yourself on higher ground if you "gave it back to him" though. Should have just told him what you told us - that you didn't understand why he was acting crazy and that you didn't deserve that kind of treatment. You just wanted to mend and be on civil terms but obviously he didn't. I guess all you can really do is say, "hey, I tried...." and just leave it be. No, all men are not like that. I think someone walked in on the conversation. Lesson learned here: Don't contact an ex.
2007-03-19 09:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by pookiemct07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line between love and hate --so thin sometimes love seems like hate--and add some resentments you have a confusing thing-put a little love in your heart until u can figure out how to get back at him--he should never have done this to u!
2007-03-19 09:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by luminous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have contacted him, it is a big mistake that many women make.
Many men cannot handle talking to their ex's, they need it to be over so they can move on. You can't go back, even just for a friendly chat.
2007-03-19 09:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Velouria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows. maybe he made a mistake...but so did u. u dont contact ur ex after its over. why dredge up all that pain again...just to be nice? well chalk it up to lesson learned. there is nothing u can do, include being nice to him and trying to make up for something. count ur blessings that it didnt work out bc he doesnt sound like much of a man at all.
2007-03-19 09:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was big noting himself either to the other woman or one of his friends were there looking at his pc at the time............move on....You deserve to be No.1 in someones life and vice versa...don't look back and don't ever become second best to anyone........good luck you will find your No 1. real soon.............
2007-03-19 09:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kepp hold of your pride and don't contact him again - it sounds as though he wants to move on.
2007-03-19 09:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by celianne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋