Well, I contacted my ex after 6 months - since we broke up...
I met this person last year, and we were in love, we broke up 6 months back - and today i decided to just say hi online -
1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with another women - I gave it back to him, however I just dont know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??
he was so rude, waht can i do?? what do i do abt it? why would he act this way when all i did was be nice and say hi?
are all Men like this??
facts - he broke up with me....
2007-03-19 02:17:25 · 11 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why would you expect an ex to act any other way? They are our ex's for a reason, it didn't work out. Even if there was love there in the beginning, there are obviously a lot of hard feelings left on his part. It's his problem, not yours. If he doesn't want to be friendly I would suggest you go on with your life, don't try to contact him any more, and let him get on with his life.
2007-03-19 02:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you he wants to be left alone. You said you called to say hi so that should have been a quick converstaion but it seems like it went on a little longer than "just callin to say hi" which obviously irritated him. Now he shouldnt have called you any names and al men arent like this some can handle an irritating situation with a lot more tact, but why call to say hi to someone after six months?! It does sound sorta crazy. Lesson learned: dont bother with him again as he obviously doesnt want to be bothered.
2007-03-19 02:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is pushing you away because he's afraid that contact will give you the idea that he might want to get back together. And it sounds like he definitely doesn't want to get back together. It might have been very hard for him to end things with you. People always feel sorry for the person who got dumped and just expect the dumper to be happy about the break up. But the truth is, most of the time it is just as emotionally difficult for the dumper as it is for the dumpee.
He probably still has some unresolved feelings for you. Just leave him alone and move on. He's just not ready to "just friends" with you. Don't blame yourself for his reaction.
2007-03-19 02:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by SunnyMoon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke up with you, that should be answer enough. Let him go, don't contact him. He obviously doesnt want anything to do with you and by being rude and name calling he was telling you this. Hoping to hurt your feeling and make you hate him. Just let him go, move on and find a nice guy who doesnt do these things to you
2007-03-19 04:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's just stupid!!! thats the fact. a normal man will not hurt you without an explanation or a reason. being a couple you will explain your side why your breaking up right? but your ex didnt do that! its ok honey. its not yet the end of the world. just always remember this "you dont deserve guys like him, who despite what you've done he still hurts you" and "there are always many fish in the sea, and it wont feel empty without him"
2007-03-19 02:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by angelyne_heart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sense in living with the "whys" and "what ifs" it gets you nowhere. Be yourself and move on to something better. Why would you even care since he became rude? Do you really want to be with someone that called you names and called you crazy? Arent you worth more than that? I think so! God bless and good luck!
2007-03-19 02:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by sapphireblaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, why try to salvage something that left you behind 6 months ago? He obviously doesn't want anything to do with you and if you keep pursuing this then maybe you are crazy. Just move on with your life and find someone productive to be with who makes you happy and who you can make happy in return.
2007-03-19 02:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by chemreaction 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately or fortunately the truth is simple - never ever go back to your past.
2007-03-19 02:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been falling for you and wasn't ready so his only way to react was to be rude. I say just let him go. Don't bother with him and let him be the one to come back.
2007-03-19 02:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
who cares. just get on with your life. take his email/screen names out of your computer and get on with life. Unless you have kids together- there's no need to talk to ex's....
2007-03-19 02:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋