i need some help please!!!
2007-03-19 01:58:35 · 15 answers · asked by Kimberly 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just take them aside and tell them in private...depending on how they feel about the person that got you pregnant, tell your parents together if possible.
2007-03-19 02:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no easy way to do this. I was 20 when I got pregnant the first time and I was not married and extremely scared to tell my parents. I didn't have to, my brother did, which i was not happy about. So you need to tell them yourself before someone else does it for you. They would rather hear it from you than through the grapevine! Just sit them down and say, I have something to tell you. You are not going to like this, and I don't blame you, but...you are going to be grandparents. Unless you don't plan on keeping the baby, I would not put it that way. You just need to tell them, they will be upset with you at first i am sure. You didn't say how old you are so that has a lot to do with just how upset they will be too. Good luck, and be brave!
2007-03-19 09:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by hopetohelpyou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bob. This is a difficult thing but just sit them down and tell them so they can help you out when you need it. You need the best care right now and not telling your parents could be the worst mistake you ever made.
2007-03-19 09:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them. Whether you say it in a nice way or abruptly, I mean you still are going to have to say "I am pregnant." I'd say go ahead and tell them, to get it over with because the longer you wait the harder it will be to tell them the news. More than likely you already know what their reaction is going to be, so just prepare yourself for that, pray, and just let them know. Good luck...
2007-03-19 09:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by kiesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 and my parents still see me as there little girl.. So I knew that it was going to be hard to tell them.. so I got my older sister to tell my mom and surprising my mom was excited. Maybe try that if you have an older sister.. or buy a card that says grand parents on it.. that was going to be my second choice of telling them. Good luck!
2007-03-19 09:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Zara's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had to tell my parents i was pregnant when i was 17...i ended up telling my mom first but i was more comfortable with her, and then she helped me tell my dad. they were both really mad at disappointed, and they were for a few months, but now that i'm almost 38 weeks pregnant, they're much more excited that their first grandbaby is so close to being here. just tell the one you're most comfortable with, and ask if they'll please help tell the other. it really does help. good luck!
2007-03-19 09:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by Caitlin K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them together. or if your closer to one more than the other, tell that one first and then have them help you tell the other. do it now before you really start to show. it doesn't go away like it would if you were to go on a diet.
2007-03-19 09:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by becca j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to sit them down and tell them, they will be upset, for a while but they will be there for you no matter what. good luck.
2007-03-19 09:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Bob. Just tell them
2007-03-19 09:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is the best person to understand your situation. Ask a person who is close to her to accompany you... believe me, your mother will understand
Expect some emotions, she may get angry but that the consequence, but everything will be alright in the end.
A baby is always a good and welcome addition to every family
2007-03-19 09:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by rr464 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋