why do people put me down all the time?

Question

i have posted a few questions telling people that i can help them if they need help with relationships and marrage and things like that. but HEAPS of people have bee making me look like a fool, i know i have a huge spelling problem but i have tryed to help it but its soooo hard. why do people have to be sooo unkind about me all the time. i know that even know i have posted this question, people are still gunna make me feel terriable because they will say that i am trying to get attention. if thats the way you think can youo give me an email helping me. plz : ( Cj

Answer 1

People will talk no matter what. Let them be.

Answer 2

Hi there...
Well, what can I say?
Hmm... I'm not saying this to be good or whatever, but I think people should not be like that. But I guess we can't help it right?
There are lots of people in the world and each of them has their own personality and view and life, you can't change that. If that is what they wanted to say, you can't blame them because that is what they feel.
But I guess those people who do that should try to understand that not all people out there is good in english, in grammar, in spelling or whatever. That not all people in the world knows how to communicate through english language... And not all people who are good in english has a native english language...
It's good that your still trying to help others even if your having a hard time to please them with your, uhm, spelling as you say..
I think the best way for you is to start asking question that would interest everybody. Question that you really like to be answered, not to post anything without a need to be answer... if you know what I mean,
Cheers! Don't be sad, things will turn out okay. Good luck!

Answer 3

I always try to answer with an honest opinion and with as much professionalism as I possibly can. But I still receive thumbs down at times and see absolutely rude answers with thumbs up. I suppose you never know what the person is looking for- wether its an honest answer or just wound licking. I would ignore them- its not worth getting upset over. As long as you tried to help.
Perhaps try using the spelling corrector- that might help others take you serious but I just normally chalk mistakes like that to a language barrier and never really care how its spelled.

I would not let it bother you- at least you are offering help- that makes you the better person!

Answer 4

If i were you I would take no thought to what other people say on here about you. They don't know you, if you are trying to help people you should pat yourself on the back! Sometimes its just easier to respond in a short, crappy manor than take the time to answer someone's question with a proper response. When you see what other's are going through it can be overwhelming. When it starts to feel like that people should take a break from answering.

Answer 5

People who make fun of other people usually have something that they don't like about themselves! Fighting online is like competing in the special olympics-even if you win you are still retarded.

Probobly the people who insult you online are either, really ugly, really fat, or really unliked. Insulting a person on the internet is perfect for them because you can't see them to insult them back! They are cowards-ignore the horrible creatures.

At least you know you make spelling mistakes! That means you are intelligent.

Answer 6

In general people are rude. Anyone who makes fun opf anyone else, needs to look in their own backyard. I will tell you what I have told my 14 year old daughter to tell others when they say things to make fun of you. She said it works and people usually leave her alone after this. Tell them, "love me or hate, atleast your thinking about me."
Or this one, " Man, you must really be crazy about me because you sure think of me all the time." or this last one, " I am privilaged that you think about me so much." However you need to remember that you are more than likely a vibrant , wonderful person and these people who are making you fell bad are jealous. I hope this helps, I hate to see people picked on. Dawn

Answer 7

Try not to take it to heart. Some people are born to be writers and spell check is available everywhere. Maybe just take your time, and really think things through. Don't let people bring you down.

Answer 8

If you have more confidence in yourself then people will be less likely to put you down. Don't post things saying I can help, just go help.

Answer 9

perhaps you should take a moment and re-read the comments that others make...if you try to learn something from them and start using spell check then maybe people will be kinder to you...good luck

Answer 10

hey there, u seem like a really nice person..but u knw wat u have to accept that fact that not all people are nice..and i understnd ur intention of wantin to help, but i gues people should *** to u for that..not the other way around..and i dont think u have a problem as such..just a good heart..so try workin out on ur dignity u knw..keep ur head high..people prefer askin help from that kind of person rather than the one who is for evr ready to help i gues. its a funny world out there..n we are all funny people indeed..

Answer 11

Proof read hon. That's all you have to do and chech spelling is usually available. Just make sure you read it before you submit it..:)