I'm going through so much pain right now..My boyfriend of 6 yrs. that i live with and have a son with decided he dosen't love me any more..i don't know what to do..he got my money & i think he spend it..i was going to move out but i'm gonna just tell him to give me my money first then move out! I feel like Sh*t..i can't eat..i get jelous of some friend he has i feel like my son dosen't love me anymore..How do i do this! Can someone pray for me please..i wan't to have confidence & be strong but i feel like he took everything away from me..my mom said we werent going to last together but i didn't listen..& i don't wan't to go back home..i don't feel like i belong there..i'm so lost right now i can't take this pain!I'm at work and i'm trying so hard not to cry.I'm 20 i just wan't to go home i don't wan't to even be here at work! I can't take the pain PLEASE somene help!I know this is just a computer but i need some advice.*
2007-03-19 01:37:27 · 7 answers · asked by liza 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
honey pull yourself together because u are strong. i always thought i was the weakest perso on earth until someone unveiled my strength to me. the only differece btn our situations is the fact that im married. i have gone through physical and mental abuses and ever spoke out bcos i felt so embarrassed. he takes my paycheck plans everything including his schooling and leave me out. he wont even let me buy any clothes to wear. every expenditure on me is a waste of money. i dont think i deserve this beacause im not an evil person. i cook for him, do all the cleaning, take care of our baby and never for once has he appreciated it. he has never told me i love you and weve ever even dined out as a couple beacause its waste of money. i never slept with anyone until i got married to him at the age of 26. i am very peaceful never quuarrelled im my entire life. im not saying that im perfect but the picture i want to create to you is that you are not evil to endure this. in the past he would tell me to leave at the least provocation. bt today im leaving. if he genuinely changes his ways, i will come back. if he doesnt then i will be content to leave a single and decent life for the rest of my life. im going out to pursue my ambitions so that when he sees me next time he cant help it but admire me. be strong. i pray for the strength and peace of God to be released into your agonizing soul. repeat these words many times to yourself not in vain but with fairth and meaning..'i can do all things through Christ who strengthens me'. im a christian and i never belived in divorce but iv also realised that he is turning me into evil. because im bing forced to develop resistance and immunity. honey trust me you will be fine. he doesnt deserve you. the right one will come along soon but watch out!
2007-03-19 02:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by akos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that this has happened.
It's OK to feel the way your feeling right now because you are hurt.
Call your Mom and talk with her and see if you can move back for awhile just until you can regroup and had time to get your things in order. It hurts now - but it won't forever. You just need some time. So take the time you need and get yourself feeling better again - IT WILL HAPPEN !!
I wish the best for you.
2007-03-19 02:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by jarhed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. The love of my life has just decided he doesn't feel the same. I am going through hell too. I too don't want to tell my family yet - for me just in case he changes his mind...
If you want, contact me and we can try to help each other out. I know what you are going through.
2007-03-19 03:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by why 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like your mom might give you the "I told you so"s,find a close gf or relative that you can talk to...you need emotional support right now...see if you could take some time off...be good to yourself right now...it hurts like hell but you'll get through it, hon...one day at a time.
2007-03-19 01:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by mrs O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you need some one for emotional support.Better go to your mother.take things as they are .As you are still very young wait for some one who can understand you and willing to take you as a partner.
cultivate patience and career.
You will find solace and solution.
2007-03-19 02:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by NQS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Phone your mum and go home. You need some help and some support. Go on, now.
2007-03-19 01:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-19 06:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋