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2007-03-19 01:29:38 · 8 answers · asked by judz 1 in Social Science Psychology

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According to Canada’s Toronto Star, “about 13 per cent of adults suffer from extreme shyness.” The newspaper reports that this “prevents them from leading full lives.” Experts cited tips for overcoming shyness: “Think of conversation starters from news events, magazine articles, books, hobbies or movies.” “Practise verbal and non-verbal communications skills, including making eye contact [and] active listening.” “Force yourself to do things you fear.” “If you’re a parent of a shy child, it’s important that you provide plenty of opportunities for your youngster to socialize.” The encouragement was not to give up, for experience shows that the more one tries to overcome shyness, the easier it gets.

2007-03-19 04:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by JDA 2 · 0 0

Is it shyness with everyone or just with the opposite sex? Well, it doesn't matter, really... Start small. Say "hello". Hang out with people with whom you share an interest, and conversations will follow. If you're into collecting things or playing games or sports or whatever, then you have plenty of things in common. Just take a deep breath, relax, and begin talking. Remember to ask questions...let the other person talk. You don't want to become the opposite of shy! Shy is much better than an annoying person who just talks and talks!
Good Luck!

2007-03-19 01:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by geehaw 4 · 0 0

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2007-03-19 01:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by kimht 6 · 0 0

Start thinking when the last time u go crazy and truly madly comfortable wit someone. Finds ur style then apply it to EVERYONE IN THE WORLD.
So No more comfy and uncomfy person, EVERYBODY IS THE SAME because they can see the true you.

2007-03-19 01:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You are certainly not alone with this problem, I have added a website that sort of covers all areas of shyness.
Some of our greatest speakers today, will tell you that was one of their biggest problems, start out in small ways to do things that will get you talking to others etc. it will help build your self esteem and confidence.

2007-03-19 01:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by brown.gloria@yahoo.com 5 · 1 0

U have to believe that ur the hottest, smartest person in the world. like when i go to a place, i always enter with my chin up, i think that im the hottest person, and mostly of the time i am. u should build ur self-esteem and confidence. Have fun!!! we only have one life, u have to enjoy life!!!!

2007-03-19 02:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by NYmodel 2 · 0 0

Borrow some library books on self confidence and self esteem....very helpful.

2007-03-19 01:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by holly 7 · 0 0

Feel hopeless and frustrated with urself, u won't feel shy atall, bcoz wen u accept that u will b inevitably wrong, u won't get afraid about anything & so won't feel shy.

2007-03-19 01:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by Saanjh 1 · 0 0

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