Sooo I like my friend for a long time already, and almost everyday she would call me and we would talk for a couple of hours. I like her a lot, but she can't date because she's muslim and im non-muslim. However, friday i texted her to see what's up and saturday i texted her that i missed her and she texted me back late late at night saying she just came back from her family's gathering and shes really tired and she said plz dont expect me to call everyday... Soo im feeling kinda hurt from that and I don't know how to respond. i just texted her back i know i understand. How do I go to approach this? I really like her and she tells me literally everything in her life and I would be willing to convert to islam if she really does like me (i have no religion as of now), but I'm afraid to tell her because everytime i tell a girl that i like her, it fails..
2007-03-19 01:22:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She sounds like a wack job and a selfish one at that. Do yourself a favor and move on. The Muslim religion isn't too "fun" and they tend to be very prejudice of "nonbelievers".
2007-03-19 01:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the message is clear here.She likes you as a friend,and probably senses from all your attention that you want more and thats why she's backing off.
Show her respect by backing off a little,try not to text her too much as she may feel overwhelmed.Stay friendly and light-hearted when you are in touch as again anything too heavy may push her further away from you.
Try to reassure yourself.If you really like her than surely its better to hang onto your frienship,than put it at risk by pressurising her.
I would imagaine that she may also feel a little confused following a family gathering as maybe her family are sceptical of her having a relationship,even close frienship,with a non-muslim.
Be there as a friend,leave the ball in her court to pursue if she wants anymore than that.
2007-03-19 08:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by bungle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really show to that girl you really like, that your very sincere with your feelings for her, & you've got a good intention for her. then im sure she will believed you. maybe your not good at showing your feelings towards people. maybe your shy at showing it & fears rejection. well, it's normal. but honey, i suggest you should not be afraid in showing your feelings as long as you know your right & your not doing anything wrong. sometimes we really need guts in dealing with people. coz we'll never know if whats gonna happen if we're not yet trying it right? so why not start showing her your feelings now? by the way, the girl you want being a muslim as you know is quite conservative. so you better be careful during your intimate moments with her. her father will kill her once she get pregnant, or find out she's not a virgin anymore. in short respect her.
2007-03-19 08:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by angelyne_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would convert to islam just for a girl? no offence but I think you need to work on some self esteem issues on feeling more confident and better about yourself before getting with anyone
you never have to be afraid of rejection....if a person likes you they like you and if they do not accept and love you for you then they are not the person that God intends for you to spend your life with...best wishes to you and please never let another person to decide for you how best to serve and worship God....Jesus died for our sins and rose again and because He got the victory so can we over any and every situation...be blessed ....
2007-03-19 08:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to convert if u like the gal..
as for the calls..maybe she got scolded or sumthin so she said she wudnt call !
umm... u really r scared about rejection but u need to face it..
nothin more to say....just lots of luck !! give her a little time to think abt it !
2007-03-19 08:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by ღ♥~Samantha~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋