Sometimes I get the feeling my friend likes me, but I keep telling myself it's not possible. Whenever he sees me he smiles - a proper, face-lighting-up smile. He sometimes smiles at me across the room for no particular reason. When we're walking somewhere he walks really close to me, but I might be imagining that. He'll often sit next to me, either when we're at friends' houses or at church (where I know him from). Recently he's started apologising if he doesn't sit with me - saying things like 'I've just got to go and talk to ...' when I'd made no mention of him sitting with me. I talk to him a lot, and sometimes he asks me questions like when my birthday is. He tells me a lot about himself and his family, and has confided in me when he's had problems with one of his friends. He'll always talk to me when he sees me, and sometimes I get the impression he's trying to be close to me or coming to things because he knows I'll be there. He's shy so it's hard to tell what he's thinking.
2007-03-19 00:55:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to him. It seems like he does like you. (Wanting to get to know more and telling you about himself as well as confiding in you.)
You'll never know until you try but from what you have said it seems like you should say something. As you said he is shy, so maybe its hard for him to do more than he is doing and he is showing you as best he can.
Good luck x
2007-03-19 01:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all unless you're a mind reader there's no way to tell what he's thinking. Have you thought about just asking him? Personally, i am a very blunt person and will come out and say what's on my mind. If I want to know something, I am not shy about asking. Try it. You'd be surprised by how often people answer.
2007-03-19 01:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by mechelle68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. ^^
If I'm not mistaken, you're friend really really likes you.
Okay, I'm in Civil Engineering and most of my classmates were guys, and being around with too many guys, I think I can decipher what guys really thinks about.
Most of the guys out there are just trying to flirt around even if they don't really "like" the gurl in a way a gurl would assume he does.
When a guy don't particulary show you how important you are to him, I mean just being there when he just wanted too, then he's not really interested with you in a special way.
But as you said he's like apologizing to you whenever "he's not sitting with you..." then thats something. But then again, it's quite funny, why he would apologize when the two of you are not in a relationship right?
guys can be as complicated as gurls, but believe me, they don't spend time to people they don't like. One thing about guys is that they don't pretend too much to like people they don't really like.
What can I say, maybe you should try to open this thing up with him. So that you could really understand what he's up too, and to affirm whether what you assume is right of wrong.
It would be sad if both of you are just trying to wait for each others move... What if it's really "that thing" made for both of you...
Don't waste your time... there are lots of what ifs...
And then I guess you should analyzed your feeling too. if you feel something for him, then that would be much better, but if what you feel is not near being "that romantic feeling" then tell him honestly but softly... It would be best for you and for him to get this thing cleared out as soon as possible.
Complication may arise if you don't.
Good luck and have a wonderful time. ^^
2007-03-19 01:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you saying you are telling yourself it's not possible that the chap likes you?
Do you think you are not worth it or what?
I don't think the man is shy, to me he seems to be quite the opposite, he has guts enough to talk to you, to smile at you, to sit next to you, to tell you about himself - would a shy person do this?
Would a person do this who disliked you?
Come on, this is crystal clear - the man likes you!
2007-03-21 23:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Eugene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda had the same problem, but the guy wasn't quite a friend, more a friend-of-a-friend. the guy told our mutual friend that he likes me ages ago, but he still hasn't plucked up the courage to ask me out (he's shy too). i think that you should have the courage to say something yourself, or else you'll be wondering for the rest of your life. so just ask him!
good luck!
2007-03-19 01:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by lexie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa...this is serious...you know guys(as i am)....there are a few groups of guys...your friend is a (shy-guy)..hm...its like this...try to go with the flow first...well...trying to know each other is important in the making of intimate relationship..or serious relationship...look 4 the body language,the 'old tricks' that always done by guys.you will soon know..if he likes you he will not make you counting days...
i had been doing this kind of things to a girl but she did not respond well to me...so ive got bored...so try to give him positive responds.i hope you will suceed in your life...tata(gud luck)
2007-03-19 01:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by ryuhki05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i think that he does like you, and that he really cares for you.
and he obviously trusts you since he's told you a bit of personal stuff.
maybe you should make the first move. best of luck.
you'll make a good couple
2007-03-22 09:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by haze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u soo like him, really, impossible is nothing he wants 2 b + than ur friend
2007-03-22 14:15:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋