am trying to do my best with him give him love care and anything he need but he always make anther relationships i tryed to talk with him but no use he always lays , is my care about him a problem help me
2007-03-19 00:27:52 · 15 answers · asked by catgril 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Where do you come from???
If you're saying that he always has more relationships with other women, that is this country and many more (even in the Bible) is grounds enough for you to be granted a divorce. Get a free consultation from a lawyer. The problem is not you. About how to make him (or anyone else for that matter) happy, you can forget it... The only person you can help with that is yourself... whenever you do the right thing, you're happy but your husband is never happy 'cause he doesn't want to do the right thing, which would be loving you like his own body. You're a very good wife to still want to make him happy but I'm afraid you may be wasting your time. It sounds like you have already tried everything anyway. You have some important decisions to make. Pray to God for guidance, in the name of His son Jesus and then check your options. Best wishes to you sweet lady.
If all else fails, you can always call Dr. Phil.
He's helped many women in these situations.
2007-03-19 00:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Teri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear,relationship is tough but stay on your foot.Seems your giving him everything jus to please him,but still he remain thye same,may be it is your time to listen yourself what you want,are you truly happy doin those things to him?or your only doin it because your afraid of loosing him.Put him into a test,but at the same time preper yourself of totally loosing him,what i mean why dont you leave him for a while and explain to him why are you doing that.If you two meant for each other things will fall into places later on.Stop hurting yourself life is beautiful...But if you have children,try to sacrifice more and pray,one day he might change for good.
Good luck and dont forget ot smile.
2007-03-19 00:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I talk from experience... I really feel for you from my heart, because yours is not a nice or easy situation. Such men like your husband will never, never be happy, because their happiness is not due to a lack in you, but rather a lack in them. They are like grown babies, always blaming unfilfillment on you and seeking it elsewhere. POoint being - they will never find what they are searching for and will never be happy.
Stop trying to make him happy... and look within yourself- do what makes YOU happy... and you will start to see what I am telling you now.
I fdeel sorry for your situation and wish I could give you a hug...
God bless you and hold you in His hand...
2007-03-19 00:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hate to say this but if he is cheating on you why are you with him are you waiting till he gives you aids or something less destructive. leave his ass you are better than that. I know that is hard to do but you have to do what is best for you. I have the same advice for women who get beat as well. there is no reason to stay with him he is abusing you just not physically. I might even say one cheat on you may be reconcileable. but it seems he has done this more than once. you are just a chair or couch just furniture to him and you are letting him do this to you.
2007-03-19 00:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bear_Polaroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait what aboutyour happiness if he is lying anc cheating kick his butt to the curb. You are doing everything to show and express your love for him, taking care of his needs and he is acting like this. Seems he has the problem not you.
2007-03-19 00:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make your husband happy by doing things for him and showing him affection. If you are doing this and he still ignores you, cheats on you, and just plain is mean to you, then leave him. You need a respectful and apperciative man!
2007-03-19 00:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a self centered jerk. I think he's using you for all the nice things you do for him and then cheating on you because he can get away with it. Tell him goodbye. You deserve better.
2007-03-19 00:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying.. ignore his asss and you see he will react. It looks to me that is what you are looking for a reaction from him. Ignoring him will give you the best results. Stop doing anything for him, and when he reacts then you tell him what is on your mind. good luck.
2007-03-19 01:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is over happy and needs rest and wants to live free for somedays or 4ever . so let him go, look for the person who loves you not a jerk like this who wants everthing from you
2007-03-19 00:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not an attorney and don't want to break up any marriages, but I think you might have to seperate as it is not fair to you. Good Luck
2007-03-19 00:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by 5-Stars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋