Like if a Spouse/Mate/SI cheated on you..
Or any other kind of betrayals?
2007-03-18 22:16:59 · 20 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm divorcing him.
2007-03-18 22:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Gatekeeper 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Drop them, they arent worth the heartache. Move on and reqalize the people who haven't yet slapped you (so to speak) You're worth more than that. It also depends on what kind of betrayal. Cheating is too dangeous now a days..its not love. Most likely they will repeat their actions. Did they get caught and tell..or tell out of guilt?
2007-03-19 05:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be hurt and angry. I would find it impossible to trust them again, and would end the relationship.
Been down this road. I can forgive many things, but cheating is just not one of them. I can't ever look at that person the same way. I put a wall up between us, and I totally disengage from them.
2007-03-19 05:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts. It hurts so badly. Just keep working at living through it and learn to live well again. Trying not to get mired down in it, because life goes on, with or without me. Trying not to let bitterness take over, thus ruining all the rest of a beautiful life.
2007-03-19 05:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I have a friend. I trusted her in 2 months, telling all my anger to someone (it is a boy). After 2 months,,,, I didn't konw that the person I'm referring to was her crush!!!! so she tell each and everything that I said about him..... then 1 day this another friend,,, report me to our teacher because of snobbing her (ohh, commo'n like I'm busy!!!!) , when we confront each other (in the class,, all of my classmates were including my enemy and my so-called friend) ,,,, anything switches to snobbing to my anger,,,, there that I know that the friend I referring to has betrayed me. But now, me and my enemy are friends,,,, I just stay away the past,,,, and good thing that she transfer school!!! thank goodness!!!!
2007-03-19 05:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that has happened to me a couple of times, someone betraying your trust. and with each situation, what i decided to do varied. it depends on the kind of relationships. if i know that the friend did "it" (whatever they did to hurt me) out of malice, i end the friendship immediately. if they never had the intention to hurt me and were truly apologetic and if it was out of character for them to do what they did to me, then i forgave them. i havent had any significant other cheat on me ( at least that i know of) but if i did, it will deppend on if i was married, do i have kids? do i truly love that person? is it smth that they have done previously in the past?
there is no right or wrong way to respond to these kinds of situation. it all depends
2007-03-19 05:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by braille 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her and fix the problem.
As with any marriage, this could be a real issue that I had to address to myself when we got close to marriage.
I came to the conclusion I would do the above.
I married her through thick and thin and we are happily married as married couples usually are ;-)
2007-03-19 05:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He wasn't the person I thought he was and such a betrayal is a reflection of his character. I want more than that.
2007-03-19 05:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by Meg D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
been there, done that.....i think you have almost no choice but to terminate the relationship. that person is not who you thought they were, and that presents a big problem in continuing on with them! of course, if it wasn't a really big issue to you, then you have to use your judgment...but it could just be a warning sign of this person's true colors.....
2007-03-19 05:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by wookin pa nub 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be shocked. My boyfriend is not the cheating type and treats me with so much love and respect. I would probably feel a big void where my heart is if he ever betrayed me like that.
2007-03-19 05:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You can always forgive , but never forget !
I'm not sure i could always forgive depending on the seriousness of the deceit
2007-03-19 05:20:25 · answer #11 · answered by MynameisShirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋