Am I being *discriminating* or *discerning*?
2007-03-18 21:45:10 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He is a real HOTTIE physically but he attracts so much attention to himself. A bit embarrassing...
2007-03-18 21:45:59 · update #1
What does it matter - you don't want to date him and that is all that matters.
Though coming from someone who has his butt picture posted all over the net - that is just a bit judgemental - talk about getting attention!
2007-03-19 10:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then don't date him.
2007-03-19 11:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by S.F. Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must really be attracted to him since you called him a hottie and i guess the feeling is mutual. Most of the time, we just can't have our cake and eat it too. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and he is willing to make amends, i guess you should give him a bit of consideration too. Also be open to his opinion of you should you decide to open that window for discussion.
2007-03-19 00:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by MAMITA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your being yourself who doesn't like gay pple that are over the top. There is nothing wrong with that. Its like dating a real chick. eeuuuw! Just kidding about the eeuuuw part but you know what i mean.
2007-03-18 23:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by (",) JJ (,") 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is beyond our control as to who we are attracted to, it is there for a reason, listen to it, follow it blindly, and do not feel bad about it. It is a gift from God to help us know who we are meant for. That is not to say he would not make a great friend. It is your inner voice.
2007-03-18 21:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well obviously you are looking on the surface more and you dont like whats on the inside. you cant really change a person so if hes so amazing on the outside yet you cant accept him for who he is on the inside? kinda your loss? hope that helps. iam new to this shizz
2007-03-18 22:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by theunwindingcablecar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him! You're being discerning. Follow your instincts.
2007-03-18 22:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by ShadowCat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date someone who "turns you off," and don't feel bad about it. He's just not the one for you and that doesn't make him or you a bad person.
2007-03-18 21:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by amy 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So don't date him. There's no law that you have to date everybody OR anybody.
2007-03-19 00:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Meg W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋