Wow! That's a lot of replys. Thanks guys. The thing is I have tried to talk to him about all of this. He just is'nt the talkitive type. He always tries to turn things around. Saying things like he has to work so i should stop complaining so much. The only things i complain about is him not being there for my daughter and myself. He told me today he signed up to go somewhere else. He already know how i feel completly. So it's just kinda hard waiting to see what he wants. It's hard to discuss these things when he's half way around the world. But I needed to give him the ultamitum cause I knew if I did'nt things would just remain the same. And I'm only 23 I dont need to wait around for him to come around. I just kinda feel like it's up to him. Either he wants to be with me or he does'nt. I just needed to vent and you guys are great! thanks for all you input.
2007-03-18 21:29:47 · 3 answers · asked by kayliee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thats a shame ur so young!! u need to sit down with him and tell him that life is short....every one needs someone! dont sit around and wait for him to make time it looks like he dosent care much, move on there's lots of guys that will care for u the way u would want it to be.... he's selfish!!
2007-03-18 21:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your mistake. Do not COMPLAIN but share your problems with the husband. That is why he is not listening to you in the first plave. You got to put yourself in his shoes honey. Try this way instead. Make his favourite dish for dinner & dessert. After that, sit him down at his favourite couch and put your little head on his lap and gently stroke him on his hand and arms and start telling him how your day was and slowly tell him your problems (do not raise your voice), your tone should be soft and gentle. Tell him like a little girl telling the father her problems. You will see the change. Do compromise and be gentle. Good luck.
2007-03-18 21:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont leave him. If he cheats on you then kick him but otherwise work in this and dont throw it away. It takes alot to build a great relationship so do not throw it away. Work on it and you will see fruits of hard labour
2007-03-18 21:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋