2007-03-18 21:10:44 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she not your friend and move on
2007-03-18 21:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence in yourself that you are better off to move on . There will be others friends and boy friends for you. You must forgive as they cannot help their feelings for each other even though it my be short lived. That is not a reflection on you, we are all different and want different things. It is rare that someone has everything that everyone else wants if not none existent. The bad thing is that it has happened and you need to distance yourself to ease the pain of loss.
There is no magic formula to overcome this but it is all part of lifes experiences. No one ever died form it but you can join the vast club of the injured -most people I would think
2007-03-18 21:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by philipscottbrooks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smacking them both would be great but you may regret it.
Retain a dignified silence (Jennifer Aniston style) and get yourself a new better looking boyfriend with a much bigger todger (thats a willy in the UK!)
They won't last. They'll live with the guilt that they have behaved in a really crappy way and are crappy people who don't deserve you as a friend.
Time is a great healer. Be strong and hold your head up high. Good Luck finding the man of your dreams.
2007-03-19 00:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by Swampy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing!!!!
Stay away from the 2 of them.
U don't need 2 know anything.
I sow my best friend having sex in my bed summer time with my bf, no cloth nothing on top of them.
I sow everything, in and out.....
It totally destroyed me.
Stay away from them.
Whey deserve each other.
They r bought really bad people, that they don't know what is respect.
U don't need this s........
The pain will go away one day...
With time....
But never speak 2 them again.
One of the 2 one day will come back, to say am sorry.
DON'T forgive him/her, they will do the same thing again, and u will be heart again.
People like this always do the same thing.
Stay away, and u will find other bf, and gf, that they know what is the real meaning of friendship!!!!!
I know this pain....
I know it very well......
Just stay away, and never ask anything about those 2.
Am very sorry,
i hope ur pain will go away very soon..
Good luck.
2007-03-18 21:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend is that??Well the only thing that you can do is to move on....Let them be together as they're not deserve the love and friendship that you gave to them...stand up and go on find someone better and who deserve your love there are a lot out there...don't waste your time thinking about them...there are many important things you can do for those time instead giving it to them...if they saw you affected they will not care so just be brave and move on...
2007-03-18 21:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Selfie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy yourself some new underwear, then get all your old undies, throw them all over your ex friends lawn and pin a huge note to her front door in BIG RED LETTERS saying
"Seeing as you like my old cast off's, try these for size!" LOL
Seriously move on, what goes around comes around and they will both get their come uppance in the end, the best thing you can do is dont let either of them get under your skin, in actual fact i'd wish her the very best of luck, she's obviously going to need it!
2007-03-19 11:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend and he is not worthy to be your boyfriend. They deserve each other and the guy you should be with is so close to you that you cannot see him because of jerks like your ex. Take a close look around if you are wanting a lasting and fullfilling relationship. Do not look the things you do not like about the men around you and put value in the things that you do,,, you will grow to love the other things!!!!
2007-03-18 21:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by Nectory S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should know that this guy left at his own will, i dont think she held a knife at his throat forcing him 2 leave u 4 her. this shows very well that he wasnt men enough for u
friends dont do things like that to their friends, she doesnt much qualify 2 b ur friend, just be thankful that it happened sooner than later.
think of it as the beginning of a new chapter with new and greater opportunities to meet new people, make new friends.
well u might never know what might happen next
2007-03-22 10:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by dukesta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life. You don't need a friend that would stab you at your back and a boyfriend that cannot be trusted. At least you already know what kind of person they are and you can avoid them in the future.
2007-03-18 21:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by alain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the two of them from your life and move on. Before you do, though, post your story on one of those "broken heart" websites. That way, the whole world will know what they're really like. Public humiliation is the best revenge!
2007-03-19 06:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by chemical_sister_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathise with you, not only have you lost your boyfriend but also your best friend.
You may feel like your heart is broken at the momemt, but in time it will heal.
Forget about both of them as they obviously don't give a damn about you.
Ignore their calls, get on with life and don't let either of them back in.
Good Luck
2007-03-18 21:18:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋