I'm 19 years old. I find out that I acted strangely in these days. I don't even blink my eyes when I saw a pretty lady. I started to look at female's breast. Sometimes, i went to youtube.com and watched videos with sexy woman and kissing video. I even save some bikini picture in my computer. Sometimes, I even fantasise having sex.
Am I normal? Am I a pervert?
2007-03-18 21:09:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Does every male act like that?
2007-03-18 21:12:15 · update #1
you are normal, and way on the light side of normal. take that's as a gift and don't change. the more innocent you remain on sex and all of it, the more you will enjoy it as an adult, trust me for I have walked the path you are about to walk.
And save yourself for marriage. At this age you won't understand fully why but as an adult you will. For the first one you have sex with, you will have a life bond with, you do want to marry that life bond, trust me. Look around, its why you see divorce, those that didn't marry their life bond. Then look at grandparents and other older folks and they didn't divorce, why? They married their first.
To this day, that is one of the big mistakes I wish I could take back.
2007-03-18 21:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The biggest lesson you can learn is to not support the idea that anyone is normal. There is no normal. You are you and that is not a crime. It's wonderful....
And now, back to the bigger part of your question. Attraction to a girl's image is no bad thing, not for a girl, boy, man or woman. Fantasy is just that, and it is not harmful, by itself. In fact, it is very healthy.
Now, if I were you, I would see if I were attracted to an actual person.
Young or old, man or woman, the choice is yours; and it is theirs to show an interest in you.
Whatever you decide, do it with the self-confidence flowing. You just might get someone noticing YOU.
Good Luck.
2007-03-18 21:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by earthcaress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal it's called hormones!
2007-03-19 04:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having the urge to watch videos or have pictures of woman isnt in fact abnormal, just that maybe your hormones are kicking in!
2007-03-18 22:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by clueless_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry everybody goes through it. Its when you act on your impulses in public that becomes a problem. as long as you can control your urges and keep it private you should be ok.
2007-03-18 21:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by computerjunkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every male does not act like that...but about 90% of males are similar to you.
So dude...you are "kind of normal". (normal is not easily defined...that's why I say "kind of")
2007-03-18 21:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
why do you doubt you are normal, your a human being and we are sexual beings-now thinlking about doing a frog-thats not normal-at least i dont think it is- but to each it's on. your fine-just go get laid
2007-03-18 21:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you like chicks. Thats good. You are not a perv. you just like chicks. Ignore the gay propaganda that you have to like dudes, you were probably " born that way"
2007-03-19 05:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal for anyone curious about sex.
2007-03-19 02:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely normal.
2007-03-18 21:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋