My husband refuses to do certain sexual acts. It's really becoming a huge issue, to the point where I don't even care to have sex with him anymore....what is a wife to do??
2007-03-18 21:02:06 · 17 answers · asked by Toni B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Find a person who will make you happy. That is the best thing to do in such cases.
2007-03-18 21:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Good question and i'm sure that your very frusterated, sexually. I guess if i was in your situation, weigh out the positives and negatives. How important are the sexual acts and what does he do that makes you love him?? Sometimes, we need to realize that for some of the good, we have to accept the bad. Buy him a video and show him how much pleasure you would get if he did this or that too u. Make him open up and realize how u feel. The worse he can say is no.
2007-03-19 04:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by N8ivehunee 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When I married my wife I had more sexual experience then her and there was certain things I wanted her to do. Some she still won't do and others she has gotten use to. I always told her you only have to do what you want, I wont make you do anything you don't want to. I told her this because I have respect for her. So if you showed him some respect it won't hurt. If your marriage is based solely on sex then it was doomed anyone.
2007-03-19 04:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry him in the first place if he didn't do the things you like? If he never wanted to do those things, and you married him anyway, then it's your fault. If he used to do them, and now doesn't, then it's his problem. At any rate, all you can do is live with it or divorce him. Those are your only two choices at this point.
2007-03-20 16:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have sex with him, then you will get more frustrated. Don't make it hard on yourself and you won't make it hard for him. Well, to a point because you want him ahem, hard. Seduce him. Make yourself look sexy. Wear sexy clothes, say sexy things. Rent or buy toys and perform for him or watch movies(naughty ones) with him. My favorite is making my own movies and me and my partner will watch it again and arouses us even more. Little by little do things to him that he likes, and not expect anything in return. Start telling him you like to be...(done things)but don't expect him to do it. Make him want to do it to you. Make him fantasize about it. Entice him by talking a bit dirty with the things you like and soon enough he will enjoy doing it, to you I mean. Sex should be fun and enjoyable, not frustrating.
2007-03-19 04:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by xrey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the problem with people nowadays is that they care more about sex then they care about love, your letting sex take over and be the most important thing in the relationship as though thats the only reason your with him, when the most important reason is because you love him, I'm not saying sex isn't important but its not the most important thing, the most important thing is love and i don't think you love him and he doesn't deserve someone as shallow as you...
2007-03-19 04:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you guys try to have each other without just sex. Go out on a movie-date or have a romantic dinner. If you dont want that buy a dildo and make love with yourself....
2007-03-19 04:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres only two things you can do, and first you have to decide which is more important, your sexlife, or your whole married life to your hubby. you have to tell him how you feel and if he wont try, or the two of you compromise, then you either stay with him, or leave. i wouldnt have an affair. not fair to him, or yourself either.
2007-03-19 04:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok the doctor is in the house lol, i want you to forget about sex, get it off your mind for a long time,, and spend your free time reading sex romance novels at bedtime,, i want you to be so horney that your headlights wont go off and if you cant figure out forplay at that moment, call me and we can set you up in cath school for nuns,,,, pretty simple,, answers,, reminds me of corner time when i was a bad boy, lol
2007-03-19 04:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I am sure you want to have same thing as my husband wants of me. He wants to push his lot into my As* as well Mouth. Once he ejaculates, my mouth gets bad taste , but not till I also looosseee
Sandeepa
2007-03-19 04:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by sandeep k 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋