I work with another nurse who always seems to be riding me about something. I wish I could just find the humor in it! But I get depressed and upset about it instead. Any advice?
2007-03-18 20:40:54 · 7 answers · asked by jejavi183 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first about that nurse: some one with that kind of attitude is suffering from an inferiority complex which they try to camouflage by such an attitude. they draw consolation about their own inadequacies by constantly tryng to find fault in others. basically they are try to heal their own wounds caused by their own inadequacies which they are too proud or too arrogant to admit. they might even be suffering from bad relationship in their personal lives.
your side: you judge your self with what others and especially such critics say about you. you are unsure about your own self and doubt your own qualities /competence. it is natural.
solution: believe in your self. no matter how much she criticises you "DO YOUR OWN THING". EAT , DRESS , TALK AS IT PLEASES YOU.
be polite to her but do not eevr admit to her that what her assessment about you , you agree with it. try to avoid her nasty comments. brush aside her talks and comments as if they are of no importance. and be cheerful.
when she sees what she is doing is hardly affecting you after some time she would just quit.
2007-03-18 20:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here I go again ^^#
Really, Just tell your co-worker how you feel, that you don't appreciate the comments, and you would prefer them not to be made.
2007-03-19 03:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Rori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usally people that criticize other people at work or any place else,is usally just feeding their own ego's,they're not worth getting upset over,because then they win,Don't let them win.
2007-03-19 08:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Butch46 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her a super charged pink thing with those many lights and make her find in it! I would say, here you go, now lighten up would ya?!?!?!
2007-03-20 15:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't wish to hear her negative comments any more.
2007-03-19 04:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer this suggestion to her, "I'm NOT in heat, so get off my asss" !
2007-03-19 03:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept it positively............
2007-03-19 04:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by ettel_rahc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋