my workmate is moving to darwin with her bf and she wants me to come too as her bf is a truckie and he works?

Question

for 2 weeks away from home and comes back for 2 weeks to home and she wants me to move with them so she is not alone. I still live with my mum and im 19 and want to get my own house soon. What should i do should i move with them?

Answer 1

No, if you want to get 'your own place' then you should do so right in the same city as you are living now ... your 'workmate' just wants to 'use you' so she doesn't have to 'make new friends' after she moves ... which will 'limit you' and any new friends you might make ... and besides, you are only 19, and are 'too young' to be moving to another city with someone you don't 'know' that well simply so she won't get lonely ... what if you DID move and found out you were miserable, but she told you that you HAD TO STAY because of HER. That is just 'totally wrong' ... especially for someone who is as young as you still are.

Answer 2

Dont do it
Its hard living with people who are in a relationship
Couples have a hard enough time moving to a different place, without a third person as pressure
It will backfire
Dont do something for someone elses reasons
If you have never lived with anyone before and going to move with your friend to somewhere that is new to you
You may get on great now, but TRUST me, you will get on each others nerves and be on the verge of committing murder within a few weeks
Wait until you can move into a place of your own or with a room mate there, close to family and friends

Answer 3

Don't let her drag you off to Darwin just because she wants company. Matty didnt go with Cassie to the city when Macca went trukeying. However if you live in some outback hole then I say yes, move to the city, it will be better

Answer 4

Are you kidding me? Of course you don't move with them. No brainer m,man.