What is the purpose of living?

Question

I feel empty inside.

I can't find a good girl, only those who use men.
I don't want God, I hate to be bossed around.
I don't like living, life sucks.

I don't want to die just yet, it's too painful.
I wish I had never been born, but here I am.
I see no purpose in life.

I don't care to be happy or sad.
I don't care for heaven or hell.
Religion sells, but who cares?

Life is meaningless.
Religion is NOT a solution to life.
God is not either.

There is nothing left to want in life.
Why was I put here?
There is nothing worse than being alive.

I
just
wish
I
were
never
born!

If there is a God, why did he put me in this torment?
This is far worse than any hell could be.
If hell exists, at least, you don't need a house,
car,
money,
girlfriend,
people can beat you up, but all punches pass through you,
don't have to drink,
eat,
nothing.

Sleeping in hell will be far easier.
This life was only created to torture us?
Yes, there is no other explanation.

God is an evil God.
He deserves death.

Answer 1

at least you help make carbon dioxide 4 the trees and help me wast time .I.M. me if your this bord

Answer 2

empty? then u need to re-charge, both spiritually and physically..God will not cease to be God becuase you do not believe there is one., whats ironic is although u think God has abandoned u, or is not interested in you or whats happening in your life or, your relationships, or the lack of it, He is ..... more than you know.
Purpose? what i know of it is.... all were made for a specific purpose, where u are now, is where God wants u, and the people that are around u is your assignment, alwasy to do whats good and to make this world a loving place to live in.
Some things can never and will never be explained, like God, God will cease to be God when u can explain him in the fullest sense, lets put it this way, try putting the whole ocean in a dipper. by the way there is no peace in Hell, never is never was, never will, May peace settle and be with u. God bless u.

Answer 3

You sound like you're suffering from severe depression. There are treatments for depression. Make an appointment with a psychiatrist and with a therapist or couselor.

Ignore the cruel remarks--they're not worth your emotional energy. Listen to the kind suggestions.

Life is joy, grief and everything in between. There's friendship, beauty, love, wonder...

For me, today, life has been: Laughing at joke, worrying about how I'll pay a bill, seeing my niece smile when I sang a song for her, crying when I came across an old photo of a beloved aunt who was murdered, cursing and feelng grumpy because I still have the flu w/ a fever of 102, enjoying grabbing 26 cards in the discard pile during an online game of canasta, writing 4 friends, checking on my dad, then coming back to this site and enjoying it.


Depression is a disease, not something you can just get over with sheer willpower. It is treatable, though.
One of my closest friends suffers from depression. Before he got treatment he saw nothing worth living for. Afterwards, he began to enjoy life again. He said (paraphrasing) that it was "like being shut up in a dark closet" then, after a few mos of treatment, "like the sun had come out again." He still has times when he feels depressed, but it no longer seems to overwhelm him. Before he was uncommunicative. Now we talk at least once a week.

take care and leave theological speculation til you begin to recover. (I suspect the cruel remarks come from those offended by what you say about the god they worship, They seem to have forgotten those words of love)

Answer 4

The meaning of life: that's something that philosophers have tried to come up with since the beginning of time. I've wondered what it is for the past several decades. I'm going to guess you're in high school which is the hardest of times, adult, but not quite. Independent, but not quite. Hopefully you'll go on to college where the meaning of life can be studied intently...in the classroom.
Also you might want to consider getting some emotional therapy. When a person is upset to the degree that you obviously are, you need to have a disinterested person to chat with about your views on life. As a last/best resort, you might want to talk to your doctor. He may suggest that you see a psychiatrist who can help with anti-depressant meds.

Answer 5

Sometimes life throws us a genuine challenge like cancer, but for the most part we make our own lives a heaven or hell.

Please take a few minutes to write down the best 10 things you can think of that happened to you today and the best 10 things that happened in the last year.

If you can't think of anything big, write down a small thing. Anything will do, as long as you sincerely liked it.

Here is my top 10 list for the last day:

- Got to watch my daughter play softball.
- Got a hug and kiss from my son
- Enjoying being on the computer right now
- Enjoying munching on sunflower seeds while writing this
- Enjoyed church and bible study today (sorry -- I know you' re not religious at this time in your life -- but this is my list, and I did enjoy it. It's not just the bible study itself, but also the friendships I've developed)
- The weather was nice today (where we live)
- Our dog who'se been jumping on people too much wasn't too bad today
- I read a few interesting news stories today
- I found a penny
- Dinner was good

What is the point of doing this? It's simple. You will feel better if you focus on things you're happy about. If you focus on things that you're unhappy about, you'll feel worse. So every day, whether you're having a good day or a lousy one, count enough blessings -- literally make a list -- so that you feel happier

- If you're me, when you feel a little happier, you may also feel more motivated, which means you accomplish a few little goals, which helps you be even happier

- Notice how you talk to yourself. Don't ever call yourself names or criticize yourself in your head. Talk to yourself kindly and reassuringly, as you would talk to a good friend whom you love. When the voice in your head says something discourageing like "what's the use?", replace it with an encouraging voice that says encouraging words instead. Be your own best friend -- especially when you're feeling angry, tired, guilty, etc. When you are kind to yourself life is easier

- If you're in torment and living at home, keep in mind that in a few short years you can lay the foundation to get a job, earn your first few paychecks, and move out. If you are in school, make your very best effort and get the best grades you can. It will help you get a better job, and soon you'll be able to earn all those things that seem so far away right now -- car, house, etc. Take it one step at a time.

If you truly are living with anyone abusive, sometimes the only solution is to get out -- not necessarily now, but as soon as you get a good job, start eearning enough to support yourself, etc.. But some of your torment might also be self-imposed with negative self-talk. Nomatter how hard things get, always speak kindly to yourself.

If you're having trouble getting started with being kind to yourself, etc., consider finding a 12-step program of some knids. They have them for just about every kind of additction or problem -- even if you have a family member who's an alcoholic, for example. If you find a good 12-step program, one where you feel comfortable and confidence, you'll build a community of friends who will encourage you through good times and bad. You need more of that, don't you? Don't we all!

Good luck to you. Never give up.

Answer 6

God is a good God. Satan is the evil one. Don't blaim God. Life is hard sometimes and you'd be surprised at how many people at on time or another wishes that they were never born or that they could just die. Life has it's ups and downs. Just hang in there. Things will get better. You have got to want to help yourself. Get some sleep.

Answer 7

we all feel like that , lets just say i am on an elevator and it keeps going down instead of panicking i just enjoy the ride. no it isn't easy,but how long do you think people will remember you when you die?do as i do learn to love yourself first and realize that god didn't do this this is all of our test to see if we can endure,you may not want to hear this but if you ask a Jehovah witness to do bible study with you you would see why you are hear on earth, trust yourself and get a bible lesson teaching to know why their is a battle on this earth against good and bad and what is you part , let me know how it goes, and that monkey you got on your back right now , put him to bed he is tired and sweety you go to bed to. hard day, when the world gives you crap make fertilizer and it is not the girl you are looking for its yourself get to know yourself from your stand point and stop living for others people standpoint. first learn to live with yourself and trust god it says in the bible taste god and see how good he is. for yourself don't drink or smoke when down because that when Satan can attack your thoughts.hear from you later today OK!

Answer 8

God is not the one to blame. If you are kind to your fellow man, God will not give you more than you can bear. He must think you're truly special if your life "sucks"! My mom comforted me about the mean *** ex- husband who dumped me in this way: "This will be the best that he will ever know; you have experienced the worst you'll ever know" How true! We are here for each other, to hold each other up, to love one another-nothing more!

Answer 9

what the hell is this?! aye yei yei depressed boy. you do not need to worry about religion or hell. there must be something that makes you happy. you can find it. if you have to run away from your current life and start over, then so be it. everyone has something that makes them happy, you just need to find a way to make that grow. f*uck money, car, or relationships. a girlfriend should love you for what you love not what you have. i know its tough to live without money in this era. it really is, i deal with it everyday. just find what you like and strive on that.

Answer 10

The purpose of living mostly depends on a individual.And as they may say people has been through so many concept until they just can't take it any more.So don't feel as if life depend on you, it's the way you're able to deal with it. JUST THINK HOW IMPORTANT IT IS.

Answer 11

I felt really sorry for you until you said God is an evil god. Not that I don't feel sorry for you, I know how tough life can be and how depressing it can be. Live life to the fullest.